The 19-year-old boy canceled his future because of children and angry words
Every parent wants their children to behave properly and politely, especially in public. However, not everyone teaches their children properly. Many times, in order to pamper their children, parents have overlooked their mistakes. But they don’t know that it is that tolerance that makes their children even more spoiled. Even dangerous to others.
Because of a child who doesn’t understand, a boy’s bright future is destroyed. (Illustration)
A girl named Shin recently talked about her boyfriend’s life. When he was in 11th grade, he once went to help his uncle install a light bulb on the porch of a toy store when he had an accident. After that, his bright future also fell to pieces. The person who caused the accident for Shin’s boyfriend was a 10-year-old boy.
Shin said, at that time, when he was using a wooden ladder leaning against the wall to climb up, the child and his mother went to the store. At this time, he was the only one to look after the toy store. Because his uncle was busy, he went out.
“A child and his mother went to the store to take a look. Her mother was busy dialing the phone, and the child ran all the way to the toy shelf he liked. As a result, he took the remote control car and a robot and went away. not paid.
The boyfriend immediately called him back loudly. But the little boy cried again. His mother hastily shouted back: “Children, you don’t know anything. If he runs away, here I am. What are you worried about?”. He saw that, so he still stood on the ladder and continued to install the light, not caring about it anymore.
The other child did not accept his fate. It went to the ladder and pushed him with his hands, causing him to fall from above. The boy then continued to hold the toy and ran to his mother.
As you all know, this kind of ladder is really unstable, just a little deviation can cause you to fall down, let alone standing very high. There was a pile of nails on the floor that I just took from the wooden stick earlier.” – recounted the girl.
The consequences of a fall are very serious. Shin’s boyfriend had to have 6 stitches on his head and was left with a scar. Lucky to have long hair to cover.
But his hands weren’t so lucky. The boy was disabled. His right finger and hand were severely injured and could not be restored to their original state. Right leg too, broken bone. In addition, he has countless cuts and scrapes, nails pierced into his skin…
A serious injury caused the boy’s bright future to fall. He lost a lot of weight. From 90kg to 65kg. Academic results are also downhill. From a tall guy (1m83), he planned to enter Beijing Sports University, but current conditions do not allow him to fulfill his dream.
Now, the wound in his heart has healed. But seeing children is the guy to stay away. (Illustration)
Shin said: “Boyfriend has to reserve 1 year, even holding a pen to write an article can’t even hold it. The next year, when I went back to school, I had to write a lot of literature, my fingers hurt so I couldn’t write much. The performance went downhill. The teachers wanted to keep the achievement target, so they advised him to continue to save, wait until it’s completely healed, then go back to school. Many of his classmates turned against him and isolated him.
In the end, he decided to give up, not going to university anymore. He also didn’t finish high school, so he only had a high school diploma, and also gave up his dream future at that sports school.
Up to now, he can only hold objects under 5kg, can’t hold a pen for long, can’t run, don’t play basketball, it’s hot, and he can’t wear shorts and tank tops, just wear them shirt and jeans to cover the scars.
And of course, I don’t want to have children for the rest of my life, because every time I see children, no matter how cute, I stay far away.”
Currently, Shin’s boyfriend is 27 years old. The 19-year-old story has also calmed down somewhat. But seeing other people walking quickly, being able to play basketball, do everything he likes… the guy was quiet and stayed up all night.
Shin wondered that the law always protects minors, but what about when they harm others? How is it fair for her boyfriend. People often click their tongues: “It’s childish, forgive me.” But the truth is that in this case, it is very difficult to want to sympathize. The old kid is now 18 years old. Just like him then, he was full of ambitions and dreams. Will he still remember his childhood story?
From the above story, it can be seen that the behavior of children in public is a problem that adults must pay special attention to. Please don’t make excuses that your children are young, ignorant and tolerating them.
Many children are overprotected and tolerated by their parents. To the point that when they go out, especially in crowded places, they speak loudly, speak empty words, do not greet, cry, frolic, arbitrarily naughty, take other people’s things… When someone reminds them, they take “tears” to solve everything.
Agree that children are naive, foolish, and have no mature thoughts. But we adults must have a sense of discipline to our children. Can’t just rely on “because they’re young, they don’t know anything” and consider it the end of the story. That saying is very dangerous, that we are “sending spears to the enemy”.
Some methods that scientists recommend parents apply to teach their children civilized manners in public:
+ Teach children to eat on their own without adult intervention. In addition, you must know how to give in to others.
When letting children go out, parents should prepare more toys so that they do not get bored when parents are busy talking to each other and fighting with others.
+ Do not pick up or touch objects unless your parents allow it.
+ Communicate with your child when going out in public, and tell him what is happening and what will happen.
+ When children show unwise behavior, parents should immediately punish their children. Do not compromise, sympathize with children. But it should not be too harsh to make them afraid and cry.
+ When taking the elevator, the entertainment places … need to guide children to use them properly and with culture. Do not let your child run around and play around with the controls. Parents should explain to their children the effects and consequences if they use the controls incorrectly, so that they understand and do not make mistakes.
+ Teach children the culture of queuing when going to supermarkets, places that require people to keep order, obey discipline and rules.
In order for their children to behave civilly in public places, parents must first show themselves as civilized people in front of everyone. Children are like blank sheets of paper, they easily imitate the actions of adults. If their parents are not conscious, it is very easy to make their children become so spoiled.
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