The 7-year-old daughter described her mother as a fierce tiger, making her angry but after listening to the explanation, she was extremely embarrassed!

April 26, 2022 06:28 GMT+7

Doing homework is the responsibility of the child, and reminding and supervising the completion of the homework is the responsibility of the parent. In the process of doing the test, the children often make mistakes such as: Bad handwriting, poor presentation, wrong calculation, etc. This makes many parents “frustrated”, shouting loudly at their children.

As for the subject of Writing Level 1, because the children’s thinking is still immature, parents should only ask their children to write correctly and presently, but not necessarily well. But most parents want their children to have impressive papers, especially ones that describe loved ones. They don’t want their children to spoil their image. The story below is a similar case.

Tieu Mai (China) has a 7-year-old daughter, who is studying in grade 2 at a primary school near her home. Although she is busy with her business, she still finds time to check her children’s homework every night. That day, she was very angry when she saw my son’s homework. The topic requires: “Make a sentence with a full subject – predicate phrase”. Tieu Mai’s daughter had a powerful sentence as follows: “My mother is a fierce tiger”.

Tieu Mai was very angry and asked her son: “If you can’t describe your mother as beautiful, beautiful, gentle, and dignified, you should also ask an appropriate sentence. Why do you bring me around like that. I will be very ugly. Tiger with your teacher!”.

The daughter innocently replied that the teacher asked to write an honest sentence, in accordance with reality, so it should be written like that. Listening to my son’s explanation, Tieu Mai cried and laughed. But her words also startled her, she was speechless. It turned out that in her daughter’s eyes, she was a fierce mother that made her children extremely afraid.

Teachers and parents often remind children to be honest, not to lie. Therefore, when writing, children often innocently tell all family secrets, making adults feel embarrassed and embarrassed. However, parents should also reflect on what children say and write. Because that’s what children observe in reality.

Returning to the above story, Tieu Mai has identified herself as a person who often gets angry and scolds her children. This is not a scientific method of educating children. Yelling at or using spanking only scares the child, creates a rebellious attitude, and doesn’t make progress in the future. For things that children do wrong or not according to their intentions, parents should gently remind and guide children to solve. Thus, children will remember for a long time and not suffer psychological damage.

To avoid putting pressure on themselves and their children, parents should note the following when teaching their children to learn:

-First, parents should not push their children to do homework continuously. Many parents often force their children to sit at the study table as soon as they finish eating or do not give their children time to relax on weekends. This does not help with effective learning, but also makes children dissatisfied, leading to hostile behavior.

Second, parents should not ignore their child’s efforts. When children get good grades, they study hard, parents should give praise in time. This helps children become happier, try harder.

Third, parents should not lose their temper when discovering their child’s mistake. It is normal for children to do their homework wrong. During this time, parents should help their children recognize their mistakes and correct them, avoiding yelling at their children.

Fourth, parents should not use personal opinions to evaluate their children’s work. Many people, when they see that their children’s study results are not good, quickly judge that their children are busy playing and lazy. However, this is the perspective of parents and students, maybe they have tried but not in the right way, so they don’t get good results. In this case, parents should work with their children to find out the cause and how to fix it.

According to phapluat.suckhoedoisong.vn