“I realized I made mistakes”

Following Thanh Thanh Hien on social networks, many people realize that she is gradually regaining her balance after the shock of marriage. It seems that your life is now a completely different page?

– I’ve been back to normal for a long time. Now my life is very good. That means not only regaining balance, overcoming events but also being able to fully sublimate when participating in art performances. I have really found joy in the simple everyday things and the big things when doing art.

What made you able to get over the huge shock of your marriage in such a short period of time?

– I’m an optimist… I’m an optimist. And I also claim to be a very strong person. Strong in thought to decisive in action. That makes it easy for me to regain my balance because I know how to navigate the path of my life. There are many people who are determined but just try to determine and in their hearts they do not follow the path they determined. Personally, from thought to action, we “eat tattoo” together.

I think that’s a long time, but if it were me many years ago, in just one day, I could forget everything to start a new page of life.

Does that mean you no longer have any connection with your ex-husband?

– Yes, that’s right, cutting is cutting. Maybe others think this is a bit harsh but to me it makes sense for both and needs to be done because it is very civilized. Only ending and being transparent in love can our life be good. If you don’t keep lurking, stammering, entangled, lingering… all of these things won’t give you a beautiful life but keep dragging you down. Pull down both mentally and daily activities.

What is the greatest joy of artist Thanh Thanh Hien now?

– My biggest joy now is art and children. In the past time, my two daughters have been a great source of encouragement to me, helping me to “heal” the hurt in my heart soon. Tam is the youngest daughter like a mother’s confidant, she always supports her mother wherever she goes and is ready to listen to her every confidant.

Her big girlfriend, Nhim, is studying abroad in the US, but she is also very interested in her mother, following her mother’s every step. She studied very well and was very obedient. She is far away from Vietnam but still retains the essence and lifestyle of the Vietnamese people.

Out of the two of you, Tam is more like me. Similar from the way to dress to the way to behave and even the soul for art. When I was 14 years old, wearing only black silk pants and a ba ba shirt, now Tam looks exactly like me. Hedgehogs go to school to be exposed to foreigners, so it may be a little different. Everything the Hedgehog arranges and handles the work much more scientifically.

Previously, she shared, after the marriage event, she did not think about love anymore. But with a person like you without love, will the artistic soul be barren because of that?

– Everything I’ve shared with the media is what I tell the truth. I have never said anything that is not true. And in the newspaper’s question Vietnamese people, I want to share that, from the past to the present (now calculated from the date of the recent marriage event) there has never been a time when I did not fall in love. Once I have loved, I will love passionately, passionately, infatuatedly…

To the point that, when my colleagues in the world told me that I fell in love, “love is like banging your head against the wall, sticking your face in the ground, unable to look up”. I find your similes very funny but also true. There is never a time when I don’t love, after all love for this person is to love another right away, not letting my heart rest.

But this period is really my resting period. Personally, I was self-aware that I took the wrong steps. It’s like I’m riding a car, seeing that it’s wrong, the first thing I have to do is go back to “mo”, and then reconfigure to see what gear I will put on this road next. This is my case too. I’m in “mo” mode to think, rest.

I really lost faith, at this time I still have not found faith in a man I want to be with. So I need time to “put in” correctly.

And most importantly, I think I will meet someone who is good to me and need time to wait for that person to come.

If I’m in a hurry now, I might run into someone who’s not meant for me. I’m really looking forward to it! Then the good fortune will bring me a suitable person.

You’re putting yourself in “mo” mode but people keep coming, how do you dodge?

– Be Tam – my youngest daughter is now closest to me because the eldest sister Nhim is studying abroad. So I confided with Tam everything from work to love. I don’t give anyone a chance to ask. I have to save myself for the person who will come, not in a hurry. Before, I loved banging my head against the wall, burying my face in the ground, no one would notice. But now I’m self-aware so there’s no rush.

With your passionate love like that and having made mistakes, having two daughters, do you have any advice for them?

– Yes! I said to my child: “Son, I am your example. But there are things that you don’t have to look at but follow to avoid. You should look at my mother to set an example” (laugh).

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