Up to now, I have been a bridesmaid for 5 years. My wife and I have a 4 year old son together. Since getting married, my husband and I have lived with my husband’s parents. Marrying far away, I also feel less sorry for myself because my husband’s parents also love, my husband’s brothers love and share with me a lot.
In the family, my mother-in-law is the most generous person. My father-in-law is a good diplomat and a good economist. The family’s economy is mainly done by my father-in-law. After the accident, my mother-in-law must stay at home to be a housewife so that my father-in-law can do business with peace of mind. From a small establishment, gradually my father-in-law built a company. Work is expanding, business is thriving.
When my son turned 1 year old, I discussed with my husband about going back to work. However, my father-in-law told me to come back to work for his company. I wanted to have the opportunity to develop outside, so I tried to ask him to let me try working outside for a while. After that, I joined another company. This company is also from an acquaintance of my father-in-law. Having ability plus acquaintances that I get a lot of attention. Within a short period of time I had a career advancement. I am even more fortunate when my husband always supports me in everything.
In the house the person who has a voice and speaks with weight is my father-in-law. Not only that, outside of society he is also very respected. That’s why everything is in the house, my father-in-law decides everything. My mother-in-law, my wife and I must always obey his words. Even if I go back to my hometown and my father-in-law doesn’t agree, I don’t dare argue.
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Because of being married far away, I rarely return to my hometown. Maybe only once or twice a year can I bring my children to visit my grandparents to make them happy. The year is Tet, the year is April 30. I haven’t been able to visit my birth parents for two years. This time around, the housework and the company are better and it’s almost April 30, so I plan to ask my husband’s parents for permission to return to my hometown. Normally, my father-in-law is very comfortable, but for some reason, every time I ask to go back to my hometown, he doesn’t immediately agree. This time, I’m also afraid he won’t let me.
I have discussed with my husband this year that I want to return on April 30 to visit my grandparents for a few days. My mother-in-law also agreed. As for each father-in-law, I dare not say. Recently, both of my biological parents fell ill, and they couldn’t go to Hanoi to visit their children, so they could only wait for their children to come back to play. However, when I asked for permission, my father-in-law did not agree.
He told me that on ordinary days he did not prevent me from going back to my hometown. But on the occasion of Tet holiday, it is necessary to stay at the husband’s house, not go anywhere.
The reason that my father-in-law gave made me really surprised. He said: “On these long holidays, you have to stay at home. At home, no one cooks as well as skillfully receives guests for Dad like you. This time, your parents will also come to visit, they want to be cooked by you. I should leave it for another time.”
It turned out that on many holidays I couldn’t go home to give birth just because my father-in-law wanted me to stay to cook and receive guests for him. To be honest, I don’t feel sad when my father-in-law respects me, but I like many other girls want to go back to their parents’ house on holidays to gather with everyone. Since the day I got married, I hardly have any gatherings. Besides, my father-in-law said I could leave it for another time instead of going home to give birth during the holidays. However, every time I asked to return, he would not let me go.
Thinking about my biological parents looking forward to their children and grandchildren on this occasion of April 30, I feel heartbroken. Because when my parents called, I was happy to announce that I would be back for this next occasion. Now I don’t know what to do because I don’t dare disobey my father-in-law. I feel homesick and look forward to going back home when my brothers and sisters all announced that they will gather on this occasion.
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