It’s time for me to divorce your father

To my two beloved children!

The youth: Mom had many happy and meaningful young years. Since going to school, my mother has always been surrounded by boyfriends who care and give special affection. In the third grade, a friend wrote a love letter and put it in a pen box and gave her mother a purple plastic ring as a souvenir. Happy kid. The older you get, the more you “like” your mom. Going to a high school reunion, boys prefer their mother to gather around a tray of six. Since childhood, the mother has liked the clarity, if she doesn’t like it, it’s straight, if you can do it as a friend, it won’t end the “half lean, half fat” relationship. When I went to college, when my mother and her first love made their relationship public, she knew that she had broken the hearts of some people.

Fateful encounter: After breaking up with a student relationship, her mother graduated from school and went to work. At the company, at the same time, his father attacked and hunted for his mother, and outside there were also a few people with special affection. Your mother is not pretty, just a little cute, honest and open. Maybe that’s why people love it. I didn’t choose anyone because I felt unlucky.

Then a very chance meeting with her father changed her life. Mother chose father over other sons perhaps because he was gentle, family background is similar to mother, especially father talking on the phone is very attractive. There were nights when my father and mother “cooked porridge on the phone” until the phone burned down and the battery drained but still didn’t want to end the story. It was also three hours’ preference and ability to “gossip” with women that killed the mother’s marriage. At the urging of grandparents, parents married after more than a year of research.

Marriage life: When she first returned to be a bride, living between her husband’s parents, husband and wife’s children, her mother sometimes felt “overwhelmed”. Every evening, my mother waits for the sound of my father’s gate opening, then gladly opens the door to welcome him home from work. Your father at that time was your mother’s joy and sole support in the new environment. Parents in turn have two sisters. As time goes by, love fades away. Parents live together because of responsibilities and obligations rather than because of love. Married life will go smoothly if the father is not a “flying-minded” man and likes to actively head into ambiguous relationships. Father is gentle, is a good father and loves to pamper his two daughters. Unfortunately, father is not a good husband (to mother).

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You will grow up, then step into beautiful love stories, yes or no, you will marry a man who you think can hold your hand for the rest of your life. She also believed that: among many turns, she chose the right path, the right person. I remember before the wedding day, I posted a heart-breaking blog post, with a picture of a boat peacefully moored at the riverbank. I hope and believe that my father is the shore to bring me a peaceful life. It’s over now.

Over 14 years of living together, the mother had to work hard to cultivate and take care of her family, domestic and foreign relationships, and quietly went to “clean up money mistakes” of her father. In return, the mother has to face too much pain in her heart, the emotional damage brought by her man. Women, no matter how strong, always want to have a shoulder to lean on, a firm support when they are weak because of the storms out there. I feel lonely when I am with your father. I’m sorry for this decision, Dad and I will try not to hurt you too much, I’ll try to make up for you.

When you are more mature, your children will understand this decision of your mother. Mom remembers the saying she used to like: “What’s mine will always stay with me. Whatever doesn’t belong to me, even if I try to keep or hold on to it, I’ll just leave it sooner or later.” I made this decision when I have passed half my life, not young anymore, but “everyone has only one life to live”, I love you so much.

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