Caesarean section is an important surgery. Therefore, after giving birth, the doctor always advises the mother to abstain carefully, keep the incision clean, and avoid vigorous activity to ensure that the incision heals completely. However, the young mother below made the mistake of being too subjective.
Tieu Liu (20 years old, living in China) unfortunately “gets pregnant” while being a university student. Fortunately, both families are very good and agree to let them both get married. During that time pregnantTieu Luu took a break from school while her husband still went to university in another city.
Because it was her first pregnancy at a young age, Tieu Luu was quite worried because she did not have much knowledge about pregnancy. So just listen to what adults advise to be good for the fetus, the young mother will follow. Regarding the husband and wife relationship during pregnancy, although Tieu Luu and her husband are still quite young, but because they were advised to abstain from “sex” in the first 3 months and the last 3 months, she also strongly asked her husband not to be close to his wife.
Tieu Luu and his wife are young, so they don’t have much experience. (Illustration)
The first three months were extremely difficult for Tieu Luu’s husband, but thinking about the safety of their children, the couple also tried. In the middle 3 months, their married life is more comfortable and they continue to abstain in the last 3 months. Tieu Luu’s husband even went to sleep in his own room so that Liu could sleep with his mother-in-law.
Fortunately, the young mother’s pregnancy went smoothly and she gave birth to a healthy son by cesarean section. After 5 days in the hospital, this mother was able to go home. At first, the couple also abstained from “sex” but after only a few weeks, Tieu Luu’s husband could not stand it. Thinking that her husband had suffered for a long time, Liu had to nod in agreement.
On the second day, Tieu Luu felt the wound hurt more than usual but still thought it was just a normal reaction. After 5 days, the wound is more painful and still oozes blood, has white pus, has an unpleasant smell. Tieu Luu immediately asked her mother-in-law to take her to the hospital for examination.
The incision of the young mother was bleeding and festering. (Illustration)
After examining, the doctor asked if this mother was exercising too hard or doing hard work? At this time, Tieu Luu timidly said that she and her husband had “sex” less than 2 weeks after giving birth. The doctor immediately picked up her face and scolded her for telling her to abstain for at least 6 weeks. The doctor said that Ms. Luu’s incision after giving birth has not yet healed, so doing so will significantly affect the wound, causing the cesarean section to burst and become infected. After that, the doctor had to clean and sew up the caesarean section.
How long to abstain from sex after cesarean delivery?
Normally, about 4-6 weeks after giving birth, when the discharge has completely cleared, women can have sex again normally. Women who give birth by cesarean section will take longer to recover than those who give birth naturally, so the time to abstain from sex after cesarean section is also longer.
Although the cesarean section is not cut in the perineum, the woman has to endure pain from the incision and the pressure and serious body changes caused by the cesarean section. The wife needs time to rest, wait for the wound to heal and heal. The incision is very easy to be infected, burst, tear, so women after giving birth need to abstain very carefully. Doctors recommend that women giving birth by cesarean section should abstain from sex for at least 3 months after giving birth to ensure safety.
However, the recovery time for each person is different, depending on each person’s condition and postpartum health care problems. When you feel that your body is really healthy, pain-free and inspired in “love”, you can have sex again. Absolutely not because of the husband’s afternoon that sex too soon when the incision has not yet healed, the body is not ready. This not only causes pain, bad effects on health, but also becomes a psychological burden, haunting both husband and wife in the following times.
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