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Being judged by her boyfriend for having a medical abortion?

April 30, 2022 10:35 GMT+7

Just graduated from school and worked for 3 months, Vy learned that she was pregnant. She silently went to the hospital to handle it, but her boyfriend Vy said that a medical abortion was inhumane.

Le Quynh Vy (character’s name has changed) works as a prenatal consultant of an English center, residing in Hai Ba Trung, Hanoi, coming for a maternity check-up with the reason that her period is late, she is tired, and Vy has taken a test. pregnancy up two lines. She is worried that she wants to have an abortion because both she and her boyfriend are not stable, have just graduated from school, are not qualified to take care of the family.

The doctor advised Vy to have a medical abortion to be safer. After taking the medicine and leaving, Vy told her boyfriend. Her boyfriend considered the act of taking the abortion pill inhumane and judged Vy.

During the tiring days of taking abortion pills, worrying about abortion, Vy was also judged by her boyfriend, making her extremely tired and even chose to break up with her boyfriend.

From the point of view of her boyfriend, Vy is pregnant and has to give birth. As for herself, she does not want to because now she has just returned to work after nearly a year of sick leave, the job is not stable.

According to Master, Doctor Ta Viet Cuong – Deputy Director of the Center for Reproductive Health Care, Hanoi Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital, he himself also encountered many questions from young people about whether medical abortion is not safe. inhumane or not. Many young girls are depressed because after an abortion they are judged a lot.

Dr. Cuong said many people have the view that abortion is not done, is a sin and this makes many young people feel afraid. There are even young people who take the medicine and go home, too scared, to contact the doctor. Girlfriends obsess over the mistakes they make and affect their decisions, which in turn greatly affect the future.

According to Dr. Cuong, abortion is the decision of each person and they are the ones who make the decision. Abortion requires careful thought.

Being judged ethically by her boyfriend for secretly having an abortion
Reproductive health consultation at Hanoi Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital.

For example, your girlfriend is unmarried, has a lover, becomes pregnant unexpectedly, this makes her very afraid and you keep holding the baby, the baby keeps growing. Meanwhile, the boyfriend did not want to be dragged for a baby, so the two argued and left.

That girl was pregnant alone, the pregnancy made her almost unable to work, fell into depression because she didn’t know what to do, went home to her parents, she was afraid of being scolded by her parents, afraid of being scolded by her neighbors. scornful neighbors.

That girlfriend kept giving birth at the boarding house, giving birth alone without anyone, giving birth to a girlfriend who was really in crisis, fell into depression because no one took care of her, worried about not knowing how to take care of her child.

The young mother who sacrificed her life due to depression, the newborn baby was born into a cycle of unhappiness with so many difficult things in life ahead.

The baby who grows up with many misfortunes and difficulties can even become a dangerous criminal who takes the life of others in the future. So is your decision to have a baby right at the right time?

With an unmarried girlfriend like Vy’s, Dr. Cuong said that the two of you decided to sit together to find a solution that best suits both of you. Keeping pregnant, a mountain of difficulties fell on both of them, with many plans and plans that would all be ruined. Termination of a pregnancy is something neither of them want, but it is actually more appropriate for the current situation to be able to agree on a solution that works for both of them.

Dr. Cuong believes that young people may fall into the problem of unintended pregnancy. At that time, don’t hide from solving the problem, let’s face the problem together, find out carefully, listen to the thoughts of yourself and your lover to make a decision.

K.Chi

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