Hiding her fiancé for a prenatal check-up, seeing the results, the sky and earth fell apart
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Hello Ms. Huong Duong,
Luan and I have been together for 3 years now. We lived together as husband and wife in an apartment that was purchased from the joint contributions of both. This summer, we will organize a wedding to validate the relationship.
Last week, I hid fiancé, go to the antenatal clinic by yourself. Because I kept wondering, I “released” for a whole year and still did not get pregnant. Luan asked about the pregnancy, I lied and was still planning to wear a beautiful wedding dress. My fiancé is very fond of children and often discusses birth plans after marriage.
Unexpectedly, when holding the results in my hand, heaven and earth seemed to collapse at my feet. I have blocked fallopian tubes, unable to have children Okay. I was stunned and in pain. I don’t know if I should tell Luan about this. Will he accept an infertile wife? Or do I hide it and find a cure to keep my happiness? (hongyen…@gmail.com)
Hello,
Huong Duong is very sympathetic and would like to share your suffering. As a woman, everyone wants to be a mother. This is like an instinct, a sacred feeling, worthy of respect.
Knowing that you are confused, in pain, afraid of losing your happiness, but also should not hide this from your fiancé. Be mentally prepared to face the problem and find a way to solve it. Running away is not the way to go.
Maybe he’ll be as shocked as you have been. But if he truly loves you, he will accompany you in the healing process. The two of you should go to specialized hospitals, listen and follow the instructions and treatment of the doctor. Believe that, if both of you agree, love and share together, happiness will surely come.
Besides, you also need to be mentally prepared for the worst possible scenario. If he abandons you when you are most troubled, it shows that his love for you is not big enough or sincere. At this time, you also do not have to regret for an unworthy love.
Finally, relax your spirit, be strong to overcome everything. Don’t be afraid to lose – but push yourself into bad experiences in the future, lose your good nature.
Dear.
Sunflower.
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