Guest in the program Chat with mom with milk Episode 128 is a diaper mother named Hong Le (28 years old). She has two children 17 months and 4 months old. Being pregnant and giving birth during the complicated development of the epidemic, Hong Le had unforgettable experiences.
Hong Le has two children, a 17-month-old baby and a 4-month-old baby.
Diaper mom said she found out pregnant when he was not married and his lover was doing military service. She recounted: “That day, I had a plan to have wisdom tooth surgery and hair removal, but for some reason I kept having a hunch that I had to take a pregnancy test first because those two things are dangerous if I have a baby. So I bought a pregnancy test and went to the bathroom of the spa to try it and the result was two real lines. E was very confused and decided to go home, not to do beauty anymore. When I got home, I called my husband to tell me the news and we both froze.”
After informing the family, Hong Le and her husband decided to keep the baby but could not get married due to the epidemic and her husband was not at home. Also for those two reasons, during her pregnancy, she always felt sad and pitiful.
Being pregnant at the right time of the epidemic, her husband being away from home was a difficult experience for Hong Le.
“Not only sad because my husband was away from home, pregnant alone, but I also had more economic pressure. At that time, I had just quit my office job to open a nail salon and run my own business. The shop had not been opened yet. After a long time, the epidemic broke out, social distancing made it impossible for me to do business, I lost all my capital.My life at that time depended on my mother-in-law, so she was very busy, my parents couldn’t go up in the countryside, so the whole pregnancy When I was alone, I was not taken care of like other people. From the time I was pregnant to 8 months, I used to ride a motorbike about 50km every week to go down to the place where my husband was stationed to see you.My motivation at that time was to get off. so that the child in the womb can hear the voice of the father” Hong Le confided.
Away from her husband during 9 months of pregnancy, Hong Le was very much looking forward to the day of her birth to have a companion. She “messed up” with his manager in advance and received a nod to agree to let him go when she gave birth. The pregnant mother also booked the family room in advance to wait for her husband to witness the birth of the child. However, on the day Hong Le gave birth, her husband… did not return.
Every time she gives birth, Hong Le thinks she will… divorce her husband.
“When there was a sign of birth, I texted my husband but he didn’t ask to return. The reason was because he wanted to keep discipline and didn’t want to disturb people. I was very upset, so since I had the sign of the sign. It was more than a day when I gave birth, I kept arguing with my husband and forgot about the pain. Actually at that time I was really sorry and thought that after giving birth I would leave my husband, even though I knew that my parents would be very sad.” Hong Le recalls.
Despite having such thoughts, when the labor was the most painful and unbearable, Hong Le picked up the phone to call her husband. Seeing him worried, hearing words of encouragement from her husband, Hong Le felt more motivated to give birth. The moment her baby was born, she broke out in happiness and felt that all the pitfalls and difficulties during her pregnancy had paid off.
“I’m mentally prepared that the baby will be born wrinkly, purple and dirty because of the blood. But the baby is very pink and shiny. She’s really beautiful beyond my expectations, so I’m very happy.”the young mother proudly shows off.
Only 3 days after the birth of the child, Hong Le’s husband was only allowed to visit, but seeing him only hold the child for a moment, she thought that maybe he didn’t love the child very much. “But I was wrong, now he prioritizes everything for me first, I’m number one. I think it’s because she looks so much like him, actually people tell her husband to go to the army, if the wife is pregnant at home, she doesn’t know if it’s her husband’s son or not. But when he was born, he looked exactly like his father, everyone teased him that he didn’t go for a DNA test, but the doctor scolded him for looking like a clone.” Hong Le said.
The husband is very affectionate and takes care of the children.
By the time Hong Le was pregnant with the second child, her husband had been discharged from the army. At first, he also took great care of her, making up for her. But then gradually saw that the pregnant mother was healthy and comfortable, so her husband put his mind to other things, paying less attention to her. However, the 9X pregnant mother feels warm and depressed. Even when the couple entered the delivery room, they still argued back and forth, causing the doctor to intervene.
However, after witnessing his wife give birth, husband Hong Le understood her hardships better and since then conceded and cared for his wife more. Up to now, the couple is living a happy life, taking care of two children together.
Looking at two healthy children growing up day by day, Hong Le feels happier and more meaningful life.
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