Marriage has thousands of small stories but has a great influence on the happiness of the whole family. There are things that need patience and gentle handling to come to a satisfactory result.
Thu Giang, married for 7 years, now living in Hanoi said: “It’s true that there are things you have to be patient with, open your heart, then everything will be fine. From what happened, I think about one thing that is always true: Just live honestly, not afraid that your loved ones will not understand.” .
Giang live with mother-in-law now also entering the 8th year, to say that there is peace, it is not but tension is not. Giang’s mother-in-law is a man of few words, she likes her children to understand and do things on their own, but never forcefully or lightly. At first, Giang felt very comfortable, but later on, there were a few things she did wrong with her mother-in-law that made her displeased, so Giang no longer wanted to be close to her.
Since the epidemic until now, the economy of Giang and his wife has been quite difficult. It’s fair to say that without a grandmother to help with living expenses and take care of her grandchildren, Giang also doesn’t have the time to do all kinds of extra work.
A month ago, Giang’s husband discussed with his wife that he wanted to go to Japan for a few years to accumulate some capital and then move out to live comfortably. Of course she disagreed. At this age, still far from family, so many things happen. Giang’s husband is also respectful, eager to have fun, and can’t manage being away from her.
“I don’t agree, so the husband and wife have Cold War some day. My mother-in-law discovered something strange, so if I asked her, I would say her husband’s intentions directly. Unexpectedly, she said: ‘Or just let him work for a few years. Now it’s very difficult for a man to stop him, I can only keep his body here, but his mind is not here. The mother who gave birth to it, she understands its nature’. I was so angry that I argued with her a few sentences, resentful because she was also a woman but refused to understand her daughter-in-law.”Giang said.
So in the days that followed, Giang decided to turn his back on the whole world, even angry at his mother-in-law.
Just last night, Giang’s brother and sister-in-law sent their children home for a holiday. Due to a traffic jam, I only returned to my hometown at 2 am. Lying down for an hour, but still didn’t see the husband at 3 am, so Giang also went down to see how.
“I went down to the 1st floor to get a water bottle, when I went to my mother-in-law’s room, the lights were still on, the door was left ajar, there were many sizzles inside, so I was curious. Still holding the water bottle in his hand, he approached to see what people were talking about when suddenly his mother-in-law’s voice was harsh: ‘You leave your wife and go where you want to go’.
At that time, I was a little choked up because I still thought that my mother-in-law was supportive of her son, so tears were about to overflow, I was about to go back to my room when I heard my husband whisper:
– I know that you love your daughter-in-law, but I go to work, not to go out, when I go, I come back, but I go away but mom is always harsh.
– I don’t see the mirror, my brother-in-law went to work in the South, but he also stuck a horn on his sister’s head. Mother said, this house is not so difficult that he had to sell his life in a foreign country. Almost 40 years old with 2 children, are you sure you will earn a lot of money and still be faithful to your wife?
– It’s been a long time since my brother-in-law has mentioned what to do, with other children from him.
– Son, look at your mother, live 70 years of life, get married at the age of 22, but you can’t live near your father for 10 years. When the economy was rich, he left his mother and children forever. Money can be made, but family love is very precious. Don’t risk everything for money, only when you have a lot of money will you know that there are things that money can’t buy. If you don’t go anywhere, you can sell this house for 5 billion, buy a smaller one and start a business with the money, the whole family has each other.”
Jiang was stunned when he finished the conversation. She hurried to her room after her husband sighed. That night, Giang’s husband certainly heard his wife’s silent cry.
The next morning, Giang saw her mother-in-law sweeping the yard but couldn’t help but hug her. She suddenly realized one thing, if the other party does not open up, she will be the first to take the initiative. All relationships must come from sincerity and patience to fully understand each other.
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