4 sentences husband and wife should not joke, do not arbitrarily lest the wife fall emotionally

Even though it was couple but there are also subtle things that would be nice to not say. In fact, just a few joking words, even without meaning at all, can greatly affect the relationship between husband and wife.

1. Making fun of your spouse’s feelings

This is a kind of joke that husband and wife must definitely remember and avoid. When listening to your partner share about life’s difficulties, you should not joke with the words: “Oh, oh, so many things!”, “There’s nothing to overdo it!”…

Those jokes did not have the effect of consoling, encouraging or reassuring. On the contrary, it also makes the other person think that their feelings are not respected.

Gradually, they will no longer want to open up to share anything. The husband and wife relationship will become increasingly cold and pushed away.

2. Make fun of her husband’s sexual ability

All men have dignity, especially when it comes to sex. For them, the ability to have sex is a manifestation of strength, bravery as well as the ability to succeed in life.

Women just inadvertently comparing the other’s partner with another man will also touch the man’s narcissism. This joke will drown out the husband’s intention to get close.

3. Joking about the opponent’s “past”

Even husbands and wives have been awkward and clumsy at times or put themselves in embarrassing situations. However, those are all stories of the past, if you remember, don’t repeat them.

And if you just carelessly take the past story as a “gift”, joking will make the other person feel embarrassed and self-deprecating. They also feel sad because the other half keeps remembering that ugly thing.

4. Negative jokes about each other’s looks

Using the other person’s appearance to joke in a negative way, especially in a crowded place, can cause the other person to be seriously hurt. This is an extremely sensitive topic.

Even then, the spouse doesn’t seem to mind, but they certainly won’t stop thinking about the joke afterward. From there, they will feel hurt and terrible self-esteem.

Ying Ying
According to Vietnamnet