With economic conditions, professional knowledge and support from both sides of the family, the young mother still feels too tired.
Confidentiality of a young mother shared on a forum below, many people sympathize. Because indeed after birth Secondly, the hardships are many times heavier on the shoulders of the sisters.
“Read carefully before deciding to have another child. When you have a second child, the hardship is multiplied by 3, 5 times when having the first child, not twice.
I have many advantages: My economic condition is quite good, I have skills and knowledge to take care of babies (because this is my specialty), I have 2 sides of my grandparents to support me (although my grandmother not near but need urgently, she will be there in 2 hours.
Grandma was very close by and supported me full-time when I gave birth to my second baby.) and my baby has a very good eating and sleeping routine as well as a very good schedule.
The only thing wrong is that I got pregnant with my second baby when the first one was 1 year old.
Normally it’s hard work, then there are moments like this that make me unable to hold back tears. One sick child suffered, two sick children at one time, the mother seemed to completely collapse.
I was so exhausted many times that I couldn’t swallow the second spoonful of rice, my grandmother had to go up to help, my grandmother hugged her children, grandmother hugged her brother, 1 had a high fever, and 1 coughed a lot.
The mother sitting in the middle listened to the cry of both but broke every piece of her intestines. The small intestine was broken because it was left for the child, and the large intestine was broken because it was left for the two women to spend the night taking care of their grandchildren.
Photo taken from the camera of a young mother taking care of a sick child.
Really, I can’t imagine if you guys don’t have someone to support or are not economically comfortable, where will you find the motivation to have two children at once or give birth to a third or fourth child?
Of course, I’m a perfectionist, I have to try to give my children the best, so I work harder than my friends to live a simple life.
But I still think that if you are not really sure that you can take good care of both of them, my sincere advice is for one of you to stop focusing on taking good care of your child or for a few more years.
Having more children is an adult choice, but it is a pain for both adults and children. Who told you to give birth, did you say they can take care of your baby but ask you to give birth? This will surely be the haunting years of my life! Final sentence: 4Corn is ‘For you’, not ‘4 Children'”young mother shared.
Many netizens sympathize because it’s so true:
– We have two children with a 3 year age gap, but it’s really hard like raising 4 children, not 2. She hugs one leg, I hold one leg, the two of us cry. The rice still has to be delicious, the money still has to be earned. At times, I feel extremely sad and helpless.
Normally, it’s okay, but when you’re sick, it’s only your mother, and if you’re close to each other, you’ll be sick for both of you. Don’t let anyone tell you to take advantage of the birth, raise a whole person, it’s not a joke that competes with the player.
– 2 years and 3 children, taking care of 3 children since birth, after giving birth, full of people at night, still have to get up and make milk for them, both sides support when they’re shy, luckily I haven’t gone crazy hey, i adore me so much.
– I don’t need to read the article. Just looking at the picture I can understand the article. I just say to us men. If you have a family and children, think about your wife and children. No matter how hard or miserable, think about your family.
According to Justice & Society
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