I’m getting married while we’re still in love

My sister and I have known each other for more than five years, I am 30 years old and she is 29 years old. We are in a long distance relationship and I am going abroad for a year to study soon. She broke up with me and said she couldn’t wait. I had to choose between going to school and keeping the one I love. A month later, she suddenly sent me a picture of her engagement with the person her family matched with. At this time, I was really shocked, no longer wondering, canceled my study abroad in the hope that I could make her change her mind.

Near the wedding day, she contacted me and told me it was too late, she couldn’t embarrass her family. I’m so sad, I don’t know what to do. I got married in such a hurry because my family pushed me and put pressure on me. I said if you don’t have love and get married, will you be happy in the future? I said: “Never mind, wherever you go”. I love you very much, but I know that if I interfere, I will be the third person.

>> Love someone but have to marry someone else

Will your love for me be big enough for you to overcome the pressure to stop this wedding? Is there anything I can do to save their happiness? If you and the other person come together but you don’t have feelings, will you be happy in the future? It happened so quickly that I and that person certainly could not understand each other. What should I do?

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