My best friend is jealous of me

I am female, 26 years old. At that time, my personality was also childish and innocent, so I could make friends at any age that suited me. She likes to travel and has many other interests like me, so the two of them matched at first and have been close ever since. Probably because she was born early, so she is very agile, there are many things I have to learn from her. Then she moved to another company because the salary was higher, I also found a more suitable job, so I took a short break after that. We still keep in touch and hang out often.

The situation hasn’t changed until a year ago, somehow I feel like you’re jealous of me. I have been commented that I am much taller and prettier than you, generally better in every way. Sometimes I also think that I should associate with people equal or better to be able to develop more. I noticed her jealousy from small things like pictures posted on social networks get more likes, my boyfriend is richer than her boyfriend. You said nasty things, but I didn’t say anything. I still keep in touch because we’re close anyway.

>> Jealousy ruined my youth

Earlier this year, I went to the city to work with the desire to get a good job. Instead of cheering and encouraging, she said things that made me feel negative. Another problem is that the article you shared on social networks I think is about me, so I should ask you. The first time, the second time, she didn’t answer clearly, so I asked again, but she yelled and told me it was annoying, don’t care what she did.

I know this friendship should end but I still get annoyed and think why this relationship doesn’t help me but we’ve been together for four years. Choosing a friend to play is really important, even though she hasn’t done anything wrong to me, I still feel bad influence and negative thoughts. Do you guys have any advice to choose the right friend? Thank you.

Flower

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