My wife took a break from work when she was pregnant, because of her weak health, the doctor advised her to stay at home to recuperate until the time of delivery to ensure that her mother is round and square. The economic burden fell on me alone. At the company, the pressure is on the boss, the income is not high, when I go home to support my wife, I am really tired.
There are days after work I just want to go somewhere and never come back home. I wish I didn’t get married in a hurry, wouldn’t it be so miserable. Marriage is really just a burden and trouble. I also love my children and want to be a father, but maybe this is not the right time.
I was in a bad mood, so every day when I came home, I was angry with my wife. I scolded her for not knowing how to take care of her health, every woman is not pregnant, it’s not just her. So why is it that people work healthy until close to the due date, and she is just pregnant and has to quit her job and stay at home? I blame my wife’s parents for not being able to help my daughter, if only they had helped me a little, I would have been less burdened.
I was in a bad mood, so every day when I came home, I was angry with my wife. (Illustration)
After that, until the day my wife gave birth, fortunately the baby was healthy, after a few days in the hospital, I was able to go home. For the first month, my mother-in-law came to take care of my wife and granddaughter, but then she had to go back to her hometown to work. She is also healthy and can take care of the baby on her own.
The birth of a child is many times more expensive, the economic burden makes me suffocated and breathless. My wife just looked after the children, took care of food and water, but I was still not satisfied, so I constantly rebuked and scrutinized her. Seeing my wife silently and patiently, I became more and more bored. I don’t need her to be patient when my husband is angry, what I need is for her to be able to share the burden of marriage with me!
Last night, come home late from work, come home tired, and hear the sound of a baby crying in the room. I rushed in to see what my wife was doing but refused to comfort the child. Who would have thought that she was panicking and wanted to make milk for her baby bottle.
I furiously rushed to snatch the bottle of milk from my wife’s hand, yelled at me why I didn’t breastfeed him over and over to make him cry so hard? Wife has enough milk, not less milk. She lowered her head and didn’t answer, I needed to be angry, couldn’t help but pull the buttons of my wife’s shirt, wanting to force her to breastfeed. But when I looked at my wife’s body, I was stunned.
His wife’s nipples were red and swollen and cracked open to the point of bleeding. There are new wounds, there are old wounds that have scabbed over, painful and terrifying just looking at them. This is a sensitive part with many nerves, injured to such an extent, it is clear that the wife has to endure terrible pain every time she gives birth. No wonder she refuses to breastfeed. Then I went online to find out that my wife had a severe cracked neck, a common problem of women after giving birth while breastfeeding.
Instead of complaining and resenting each other, why not hold hands to overcome. (Illustration)
Looking down at my wife’s abdomen, I choked even more. When she was a girl, she had a slim waist and smooth and smooth belly skin, but now she has changed a lot. The wife’s abdomen is dark, shaggy, and ugly. Since my wife was pregnant, we have not had sex, I have not seen how her body is destroyed because of pregnancy.
I realize my pressure is great but my wife is not happier at all. She has to endure all kinds of torture both physically and mentally, perhaps every wife wishes that she was not married. But the wife still tries to overcome it all without complaining, not only that, but also has to endure the excess of her husband.
I also realize that marriage has always been like that, with responsibilities and pressures that each person in the relationship has to bear. Instead of complaining and resenting each other, why not hold hands to overcome. And the result will return us a family home, a peaceful place to return to at the end of each day.
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