The moment the camera recorded in the middle of the night made many people choke
Taking care of a child is a long journey filled with joy and happiness but also full of challenges for a mother. Especially when you are sick, I just wish I could carry that pain for you. Many mothers confided to have full time for both mother and child, should not give birth too thick. And below is the confession of a diaper mother (living in Hanoi), a mother of 2 children who has just gone through extremely tired hours.
“PLEASE READ CAREFULLY BEFORE DECIDED “MAKE OTHER BABY”
When you have a second child, the hard work is multiplied by three, five times that of the first, not twice.
I have many advantages: My economic condition is quite good, I have skills and knowledge to take care of babies (because this is my specialty), I have 2 sides of my grandparents to support me (although my grandmother not near but urgently need her to be there in 2 hours, grandma is very close and full-time support when I give birth to my second baby 2) and our baby has a very good eating and sleeping routine as well as a very good schedule .
The only thing wrong is that I got pregnant with my second baby when the first one was 1 year old.
Normally it’s hard work, then there are moments like this that make me unable to hold back tears. One sick child suffered, two sick children at one time, the mother seemed to completely collapse. I was so exhausted many times that I couldn’t swallow the second spoon of rice, my grandmother had to come up to support me, my grandmother hugged her children, Grandma hugged her brother, one of them had a high fever, and one of them coughed a lot. Mom sat in the middle, listening to both of them cry, but broke each part of their intestines. The small intestine was broken because of the child’s love, and the large intestine was broken because of loving the two women who spent all night taking care of their grandchildren.
Really, I can’t imagine if you guys don’t have someone to support or are not economically comfortable, where will you find the motivation to have two children at once or give birth to a third or fourth child?
Of course, I’m a perfectionist, I have to try to give my children the best, so I work harder than my friends to live a simple life. But I still think that if you are not really sure that you can take good care of both of them, my sincere advice is for one of you to stop focusing on taking good care of your child or for a few more years. Having more children is an adult choice, but it is a pain for both adults and children. Who told you to give birth, did you say they can take care of your baby but ask you to give birth?
Surely these will be the years that haunt me for the rest of my life!”.
In the comments section, many people sympathize with the young mother. The image of a mother alone holding her child in the night, worrying about both of her children makes many people sad. In my mother’s heart, there is a little bit of guilt and regret because I can’t take care of both children, afraid that I will be disadvantaged and hurt when I am so young. More than anyone else, only women who have been through such situations can understand.
“So I waited for the first baby to grow up before giving birth or else I would feel very sorry for the baby. You deserve to be loved”, “trying on moms, my childhood is only once in my life”, “I love all three of you so much, I hope your husband and relatives take care of you. mother in this situation”… many people left comments.
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