Wife cries wet pillow every night, husband finds out that his wife has this dangerous disease
Depression is one of the dangerous psychological diseases that can greatly affect the lives of sufferers. Depression can reach anyone, of any age, gender, and silently creep in, causing extremely severe emotional health damage.
In the following Reddit post by a man and husband, he told about his journey to help his wife overcome this dangerous disease. The story is also a message to everyone to pay more attention to the loved ones around us to promptly help them if they unfortunately suffer from depression.
According to the man, his wife is a woman with a down-to-earth and down-to-earth personality. She is much stronger and tougher than him, and also very wise when making decisions. Unlike other girls, his lover rarely whines or flirts with his boyfriend. She rarely reveals her feelings and is always a firm support for him in all difficulties.
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After about 2 years of understanding, the couple also decided to hold a small but very cozy wedding. He and she moved to live under the same roof as both of them had wanted during the past time. It was thought that life would be happier from now on than when we were in love, but unexpectedly, things gradually got worse.
Laughter and sharing gradually decreased between him and his wife. She turned into a completely different person after marrying him. If she used to be so calm, now she’s hot-tempered. Every night when he wakes up unconsciously, he hears the sobbing cry of the person lying next to him. She kept looking at pictures of her mother and crying non-stop.
The husband was shocked to see his wife crying so pitifully. He tried to ask what was going on, if she was in trouble or hurt somewhere. But she said no, no problem at all. But the wife cried every night, this repeated for a week.
The husband, thinking that maybe married life was making his wife miserable, asked her if she wasn’t happy marrying him. Many people are also disillusioned after marriage because of problems they have never faced while in love. So he worried about his wife too. But his wife says she is very happy, she loves him very much and has no problem.
But a person who has no problems, why should he suffer every night like that. He thinks that his wife is lying to him and hiding from him the difficulties he is having. Not knowing how to handle the situation, he posted the story on the social networking site Reddit and asked for everyone’s advice.
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There are many observations and advice given. Everyone was eager to analyze the story from the details this man provided. After reviewing and sifting those opinions, he decided to take his wife to a mental health clinic at a prestigious hospital. As a result, his wife suffered from post-marital depression.
After researching many sources of information, he learned that his wife’s parents had an unhappy marriage. His father-in-law has a patriarchal personality and often beats his wife when he comes home from drinking. Perhaps his wife loved and worried about her mother when she got married far away and could not visit her often. Also because she was afraid to share with her husband, she gradually became depressed.
The husband is very sad. After much thought, he had a frank talk with his wife and offered to help overcome this illness. After that, he and his wife came to talk to the wife’s parents and wanted to discuss and find a solution together. The root cause of her depression was worry for her mother and fear that her marriage would follow in the footsteps of her parents.
In the end, her father decided to go to alcohol rehab and would only return when he was successful in rehab. During that time, her mother will live with the couple and take care of her more conveniently. She will also visit a psychologist regularly. So with the husband’s efforts and understanding, he helped his wife step by step return to a normal life. That is to say that marrying a good husband is the destiny of a woman’s life.
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