Bride ‘holy… soi’

My parents are known to be difficult people. So, when my younger brother got married, I was only worried that my daughter-in-law would come home… difficult to live with my parents. However, things were not as I thought.

The day my brother brought his lover home, both my mother and I were quite satisfied because he was careful, making me feel very suitable for my mother. However, not long after my brother got married, my mother started to get a little angry with her daughter-in-law. My mother is the mother-in-law who does not scrutinize her daughter-in-law, on the contrary, it is the daughter-in-law who speaks out and instructs my mother to do this and that. Because both my brother and sister-in-law are working, my mother stays at home to help with the cooking and cleaning. At that time, my sister-in-law advised my mother not to go to the market much, it is best to go only twice a week, buy food and store it in the refrigerator, when it is finished, continue to go, to limit going out and prevent diseases. “Mom keeps going out a lot, unfortunately getting Covid-19 will infect the whole family!” – My sister-in-law’s warning made my mother dare not to listen.

After that, she commented that my mother always defrosts food the wrong way, keeps soaking food in water, it’s easy to get bacteria, and the food is pale, so it’s best to defrost it in the microwave. While eating, my sister-in-law told my mother not to take food for others because it was very unhygienic. Moreover, the rice my mother cooked one day was criticized as too dry, another day it was called a cake. The soup is said to be salty, not good for health…

Perhaps because my mother did not feel secure about letting my mother take care of her, after giving birth, my sister-in-law decided to quit her job and stay at home to take care of the children, and then return to work until she was young. At home, she does not let my mother do anything for me, from feeding the baby to bathing, changing diapers, cleaning the baby. It made my mother very sad. “There is only one grandchild, but the mother is not taken care of. Try to ask if there is a daughter-in-law from a family like this one? Mother is as late as the dead, but still works as a mother and father” – My mother complained warmly.

Once, the boy pointed to a mango, wanting to eat a mango, my mother immediately ran to get a knife to peel the fruit for him, but his sister-in-law was not satisfied, carried the boy to his room, did not give him anything to eat or drink. “Mommy keeps spoiling me, it’s spoiled. It’s almost time to eat, what fruit do you eat now?” – My sister-in-law reacted immediately.

It is true that I did observe, and found that my sister-in-law did not want to let her grandson live near her grandparents. Every day, mother and daughter play and take care of each other on the 2nd floor, where her room is, and rarely take her down to the first floor to play with her grandparents. Grandpa often wants to hold his grandchild, but he is also afraid of his daughter-in-law. I kept thinking, should I give you advice, because if it stays like this, my parents will be very sad.

Then the Covid-19 epidemic persisted, the kindergarten could not open, and my sister-in-law could not stay away from work for too long, she had to send her child to my parents’ care to return to work. Every day before leaving the house, my sister-in-law also advised my mother very carefully: 9:30 am is time to eat fruit of Cu Ti; In the afternoon, milk must be given before 16:00; When it comes to the meal, you have to let Titus eat vegetables first and then eat meat, otherwise Cu Ti will only eat meat but not vegetables…

Well, my sister-in-law is very scientific and careful, my mother only knows how to obey, but dare not do anything against her will. “If she doesn’t do as instructed, she won’t let her take care of her” – my mother explained. See, I thought my parents were very difficult, would “look” at their daughter-in-law, who would have thought there would be such a paradox.

According to Vietnamese Women