The son broke the teacher’s gold chain, the mother went home quietly to do something that made everyone admire the high EQ

Tieu Chau (China) has a 5-year-old son, who is currently studying at a kindergarten near his home. The boy is very naughty, often messing around and damaging things in the house, making Tieu Chau very sad. When her children reached school age, she worried that the teachers would not be able to take care of her children.

Fortunately, when Tieu Chau’s son went to school, he became more obedient, less teasing his friends. The teacher patiently observes the child regularly, so there are no serious problems. But one day, when Tieu Chau came to class to pick up her child, she heard her teacher reflect on something that made her embarrassed and embarrassed.

Turns out, the teacher was wearing a gold chain. Tieu Chau’s son saw it and showed interest. He also excitedly told his teacher that in the future, he would go to work and earn a lot of money to buy his mother an identical necklace.

Seeing the lovely and innocent student, the teacher approached and leaned down to let the boy take a closer look at the necklace. And then, he accidentally broke the bracelet.

The teacher narrated the story and did not ask Tieu Chau to pay for it. But Tieu Chau felt guilty and ashamed of her son’s actions. The first thing, she asked her son to apologize to the teacher. Then, she told her son to pay for damage when he damaged other people’s things. If the amount in savings is not enough, Ipad will be used as collateral.

The child immediately agreed. Tieu Chau saw that and immediately put the iPad in the closet and locked it. Then she went down the street to buy her child’s teacher a new necklace and exchange it for the broken one.

Tieu Chau’s story spread on social networks, receiving many compliments from parents. This practice helps children understand the consequences of misbehavior, helping them to take responsibility for their own mistakes. Moreover, the collection of Ipad also limits the use of children, avoiding affecting health and psychology. Many people commented that Tieu Chau’s solution was very dangerous, it was true that “one arrow hit 2 targets”.

In fact, when children make mistakes, many parents do not have a reasonable way to handle them. Some people stare at their children, even loudly rebuke others. Some other parents yelled at their children in crowded places.

When children make mistakes, parents should calm down to come up with appropriate solutions. Here are the things that parents need to pay attention to:

1. Parents say sorry for their children to follow

A child with high self-esteem is often shy when it comes to apologizing. Therefore, parents should say sorry and accept responsibility for their children’s mistakes. Children who see this will understand the problem and boldly admit their mistakes. Parents need to set a good example for their children to follow.

This helps reduce the risk of making mistakes in the future. And even when they make a mistake, they will muster up the courage to face it, instead of running away from it.

2. Analyze for your child to understand right and wrong things

Many children make mistakes but do not know where they are going wrong if their parents do not explain. Therefore, when seeing their children make mistakes, parents should stay calm and avoid yelling at their children. Then, gently analyze so that your child understands the problem: Where am I wrong? Wrong how? Why is that wrong?…

Even if the child is not wrong in the matter, the parents need to analyze the problem. If it’s my fault, I have to say sorry. If it’s someone else’s responsibility, someone else has to apologize to you. It is important that the child perceives right and wrong clearly.

3. Encourage your child to build relationships

If parents have good qualities, so are children. If parents can teach their children to admit their mistakes, their children’s emotional intelligence will be very high in the future. Moreover, people who know how to admit mistakes when going out in society and living in a group environment are often very good. They will build relationships that benefit themselves.

After making a mistake, parents should encourage children to admit their mistakes and try to maintain good relationships with others. People often appreciate people who have the courage to admit mistakes and are willing to socialize.

According to phapluat.suckhoedoisong.vn