Knowing that he was sick, his father-in-law immediately demanded to return to his hometown
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Hi Huong Duong,
My mother-in-law passed away 2 years ago. Since then, her father-in-law’s health has also deteriorated seriously. Loving my father, my wife and I welcomed him to our house and took good care of him. But lately, father-in-law has abnormal expression on nerve. Sometimes he couldn’t even remember his own name.
Yesterday, my husband took my father to the doctor and found out that he had Alzheimer. We worry about losing sleep. Especially my husband, after just one night, he looked emaciated.
Tonight, while having dinner, my father-in-law suddenly said that he would go back to his hometown to live. I looked at him startled. Dad said hesitantly that he didn’t want to be a burden to his children, he was afraid that living here would affect the life and economy of my wife and I.
When I heard my father say that, I felt both bitter and sorry for him. My wife and I have agreed not to bring him back to his hometown because it is very dangerous for him to live there alone. But letting him stay with us would also be troublesome, especially when the illness becomes more and more serious. Or do I discuss with my husband to put my father in a nursing home so that someone can take better care of him? We will visit him every week. Looking for advice from Huong Duong. (Please remain anonymous)
Hello,
What did your father-in-law go through? psychological shock when he lost his lifelong companion. Therefore, his spirit may have changed, but that change is not enough for you and your wife to realize. Now is the time for the disease to develop and affect his life and activities.
Even so, your father-in-law still loves, worries and thinks about your children. He is a respectable father. You and your wife should discuss and agree on a solution. And please consider sending him to a nursing home as a last resort. Because the elderly are very afraid of loneliness and always want to live next to their children, receive their attention and filial piety.
You and your wife should take him to the doctor for examination and treatment. In daily activities, there should be someone to help and observe him. If you can’t arrange the time, hire more helpers.
Perhaps this is a difficult time, but as long as you love and care for your father sincerely, you will surely overcome it.
Love.
Sunflower.
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