After 30 years of marriage, her husband cheated on her and asked for a divorce for many reasons

Her husband, Uncle Hung, gave a very absurd reason. He has a friend who has lived for many years as a rental house and is widowed. She said it was late in the afternoon, she needed a man next to her when the wind turned, if he agreed to marry her, he would automatically have an apartment and several blocks of houses for rent.

Thought it was a joke, but he decided to ask for a divorce from his wife of 30 years, to marry her friend. Ms. Hong did not agree because his reasons were too bizarre. Why do you think people’s families are married and have a peaceful husband, but the other woman comes up with such a strange thing, can’t she find another man? So, she thinks that the two of them are lovers, have cheated on her for many years, now they want to hook up with each other to trick her into getting a divorce.

In order to maintain the dignity of a wife, she went to see her friend who rented the house. As soon as they met, she was furious, accusing her of destroying her family. However, what your grandmother said was the complete opposite of what her husband said. She said that the person who decided to leave the family was her uncle, but she had never “made a deal” like that. About finding a man to rely on in old age, she said so but didn’t want to explain further.

So she found her husband again, and her family and children joined in to intervene, I hope you don’t divorce. But he kicked her out, saying that his mind was decided.

Feeling that everything was going in an irreversible direction, Ms. Hong looked to a counselor, hoping that someone would come forward to mediate and help her husband and wife get back together.

However, when the aunt and uncle went to see a psychologist, things took a turn for the worse, and a new story emerged.

He talked about his useless life for the past 30 years. Uncle used to be a poor guy, married with a rich family, so he stayed in-law. When he first came home to his wife’s house, his mother-in-law insulted his son-in-law every day, slandered him with all sorts of things, criticized him for coming from such a humble background that he was still incompetent, unable to do anything right. His father-in-law considers him as a tool to earn money, but often scolds him when he runs a job that doesn’t go his way. They also say that people like you leave your wife’s house, your wife and children will suffer.

Unable to live with his wife’s house, he discussed with his wife to move to another place to live. Then he got a hired job in a certain province, so he took her with him.

Arriving at his new place, he finally breathed a sigh of relief at being freed from the grip of his wife’s family, but he found that his wife was often uninterested in him. Between uncles and aunts, only uncle is devoted to his wife’s love and care. After so many years, he felt very exhausted mentally and did not want to maintain this marriage. If he didn’t have two children, he would have wanted a divorce a long time ago.

A few years ago, she wanted to return to her hometown, to her parents’ home to live because she had had enough of traveling, but he was determined not to return, so the couple separated, each living in a different place. Two years ago, his uncle invited her to join him for Tet, but she refused because of the inconvenience. She still wanted him to come to her place to reunite his family, but he himself felt very lonely and cold. At this moment, a woman entered his world.

That’s the lady who is the owner of the house for rent, experiencing the pain of losing her husband alone, so she often cries alone. At those times, uncle often comforted, so in the end, the two people developed feelings for each other. He liked this soul mate very much, feeling that she cared about him, unlike the wife who only demanded condescending attention from him but did not know how to give.

Thus, her suspicions were correct. In order not to hurt his wife’s heart, he lied, saying that he married someone else to have a house. In fact, he wanted a divorce because he had an affair.

Before her husband’s words, she believed that he was bewitched by the other woman, everything was not as he thought. He used to be a man who loved his wife and children, and he and his wife went through many difficulties while doing business in a foreign land, but how much he had was devoted to his wife and children. Even later, when she and her uncle were not living together, he still regularly sent money to his wife.

Umbrella adultery Uncle’s words are wrong, but from her words, it can be dimly seen that the person who gives a lot is Uncle, and she cannot list what she has done for her husband. Emotions are two-way, only one person’s effort will lead to burnout.

Two years ago he called her back, this was his emotional warning to her that he was feeling very lonely, hoping she could come back but she didn’t realize. Her refusal took away his last hope.

In marriage, if husband and wife want to keep each other, the most important thing is to change their attitudes and practice constant attention to their other half. If there is no care, love and understanding, the cracks can open their mouths to break, break up at any time, even at a late age. That’s when endurance has crossed the line.