Using an excuse to take care of children to “saw back” his ex-wife, but listening to the innocent child tell a story,
Happiness has to be lost and then regretted, but not every “stumbling” has a chance to fix it. This mistake many people have made.
Tuan (35 years old) said, he divorce 2 years ago because the couple had too many disagreements in their views on life. The two sides argued many times but could not solve the problem, so the couple decided to go their separate ways.
Tuan said, at the time of court his son had just turned 5 years old. Every month, he transfers money to Ex-wife 4 million to feed the boy. However, due to the busy nature of his work, he did not have time to be around often to take care of his children.
“After leaving my wife, I also had a few romantic relationships, but they didn’t go anywhere, so I only stopped for a while. Meanwhile, sometimes on my personal page, my ex-wife shares photos, seeing her getting younger and more beautiful makes me start to feel sorry and want to go back to healing. Honestly, after getting divorced and living with other women, I realized that only my ex-wife was the one who took the best care of me. However, through friends, I learned that she has a new partner. However, I think that as long as my wife does not remarry, I still have a chance, so I am determined to see my ex-wife again.” Tuan said.
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Thinking so, Tuan planned to “attack” his ex-wife. He has the advantage of having a child in common between the two, so he used the boy as fear to reconnect. Every weekend, he spends time visiting his children and using the excuse to invite his ex-wife to eat, and take the children to shopping and entertainment centers. Those were things he had never done before.
Tuan’s wife psychologically wants the child to be close to her father, so even though she doesn’t like it, she still reluctantly accepts it. Gradually, Tuan approached his ex-wife more easily. But the closer he is to his wife and children, the more he realizes that he is “lost”.
“I tried my best to show my concern for him, took him out to eat and actively ordered fried chicken and fries for him, but he shook his head and said: ‘I only eat Uncle Tan’s fried chicken. He told me to eat home-made food to be sure. I bought a superhero toy for him, and he said, ‘Did you forget that I don’t like superheroes? I just love jigsaw puzzles. Uncle Tan bought a lot of jigsaw puzzles for his son, and he also sat with his children’…
Hearing my son say that I was too embarrassed to order pizza for his wife, but the boy quickly waved his hand: ‘Dad doesn’t know anything, mom never liked pizza’…”, Tuan shared again.
Tan is the name of the man who is pursuing Tuan’s ex-wife. He realized that his son’s name was mentioned in every sentence, so he understood that this man really stood between his relationship with his ex-wife and his child. Although a bit disappointed, but Tuan was not discouraged.
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“Until that afternoon, when I went to pick up my son to go out, the boy took his father’s hand into the house to invite him to eat fried chicken, which he praised as the best. Thinking it was made by my wife, I sat down to eat and deliberately praised ‘this dish is the best, isn’t it? Suddenly, my child laughed and said: ‘It’s not my mother who made it, it was Uncle Tan who made it for me. I know that your mother is busy, so you come to cook for me. He’s very good to me and my mother’…”, Tuan confided.
The piece of chicken wing in Tuan’s hand fell unconsciously onto the plate, his throat choked to realize that the love contained in his son’s eyes for the other man was great. The boy loved and admired him, which was something he had never received from a child before because he had never spent time with his wife’s family. As for his ex-wife, when she mentioned the man’s name, she smiled happily. That radiant face of his ex-wife made Tuan understand that he really had no chance, so he regretfully withdrew.
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