Spending billions to build a house but only being divided by her mother-in-law for a small piece of land, the reason why the daughter-in-law just wants a divorce-You

Seeing the price of land skyrocketing, my mother-in-law did an unreasonable thing with me and my wife.

I did not expect that my mother-in-law was both excessive and calculating. (Illustration)

I am 38 years old this year, have spent 14 years at my husband’s house. Since getting married, my husband’s family is very difficult, my father-in-law died early, so the family’s economy is more difficult because of that, my husband is the eldest son, so I also have a hard time taking care of my mother-in-law and both help her husband’s children go to school.

I have lived with my husband’s family for a few years, thanks to the hard work and the help of relatives on my side, my husband is doing better and better. Not only taking care of my mother, my husband also carried the burden of eating and studying, and then worked hard to find work for his two younger brothers. Up to now, my husband’s two younger brothers have had stable jobs and built a family.

The spacious house, built for 1 billion, that my mother-in-law is living in is due to my husband and I saving and borrowing, and partly because my biological parents gave me money. However, recently due to the sudden increase in the price of sandy land, the mother-in-law held a family meeting to divide the inherited sandy land.

This is also a very normal thing and should be done, but my mother-in-law’s way of dividing the land and sand is something worth mentioning. She divided the family’s land into 4 pieces, of which one piece would be cut and sold for my mother-in-law to take care of her old age, in case of illness, and to take care of the afterlife when she died.

The house is being handed over to the youngest uncle and his wife, my mother-in-law will stay with the youngest husband and wife because it is suitable. Another large piece of land was shared with the second uncle and his wife, and my wife and I were divided into the land in the last corner, where we are currently growing vegetables, and the entrance is also very small. I did not attend the meeting, but according to my husband, no one dared to comment for fear of offending my mother and causing family turmoil.

I find it too unreasonable with my mother-in-law’s division, too biased towards the youngest husband and wife, and unfair to my husband and I. The house currently rebuilt by my wife and I cannot live in, we have to move to a small piece of land in the corner of the garden, it is difficult to live in once built. My husband honestly told me, at that time, he also had an opinion, but was scolded by his mother for a match, saying that the eldest brother had to give up the younger brothers, not to fight for more seats.

I couldn’t stand it, I had to meet my mother-in-law directly, suddenly my mother-in-law told me the reason: “It is true that the house was built by the husband and wife, but built on the mother’s land, the mother has full authority to decide. If you are good, you should demolish the house and sell it, or demolish it, to see if you dare to do it?”.

Seeing that I looked shocked, my mother-in-law comforted me: “The children and their children married poor women. They could never buy land or build a house in their whole life. My family has conditions, I will give money anyway, just for my land. On this occasion, my husband and I just go back to our grandmother’s house to ask, and we will be given land and money to build a more beautiful house.

I did not expect that my mother-in-law was both excessive and calculating. The division of land and house like that must have had a reason to force us and our husband to have no other choice but to “pick up” on the outside. If I didn’t follow my mother-in-law’s wishes, she would definitely hate me and be hard-pressed to be the wife of my husband’s family.

My mother-in-law is so excessive, should I refuse to receive the divided land and move out to live on my own? Even divorce because the husband’s family cannot accept such unfair treatment?

(thuphuong@…)