The wife gave a ‘fragrant deal’ with a salary of 25 million / month to stay at home to take care of the children, the husband asked the netizens for advice and the ending was convincing!

Recently, on social networks, a husband shared a post when his wife offered a “fragrant deal” with 25 million/month if he stayed at home to take care of his children and nurture his family. The article quickly attracted a lot of interaction from the online community.

Accordingly, the couple has been married for 4 years and has a son. Both work together to build the family’s economy, but the wife’s salary is 150 million VND/month, while the husband’s salary is about 20 million VND/month. Currently, household chores such as taking care of children, cleaning the house… are mainly taken care of by the husband. Although there are domestic helpers, there are still many negligence in the housework.

Therefore, the wife’s sister gave the husband a plan that if he stayed at home to take care of the family, he would receive a salary of 25 million a month, maybe even double or triple that amount. Before the wife’s proposal, the husband asked for the advice of the online community.

The text of the post shared on social networks is as follows:

“The couple got married 4 years ago, then the job and salary were the same, my wife had cherished the clothing business before and since 1 day 4 years ago, my wife quit the company job. , with a friend in the business of fashion clothing, cosmetics… And now my wife’s income is around 150 million dong, and I’m around 15-20 million dong.

The story has nothing to say when I am currently a husband but do most of the housework. The reason is that now that the wife rushes to earn money, the husband has to take care of the housework, children, and food (1 in 2 people will be the earner, the main breadwinner of the family and now his wife is the mainstay of the economy). economic).

Because I have to do a lot of housework, there are also many mistakes, my family still has a maid but for some reason, the job is still not over, we have a baby boy over 1 year old. The wife took advantage of the pregnancy epidemic and gave birth to a child… And because there were many mistakes, the wife often said that she did this, that was not good. Today, the wife was so angry that she said:

– Well, you stay at home, go do something with a salary of 15 million, at home I pay 25 million / month, have a 13th month bonus, do good work weekly, monthly, quarterly, I will give you an extra bonus. The 3-year roadmap increases salary once, if you do well, the salary can be x2, x3, not a joke!

I’ve been working for 7 years, my salary is still around 15-20 million, suddenly my wife says that but the deal is also fragrant, according to you, should you stay at home to take care of the house, children, cook? Anyway, still need a person at home like that, now both husband and wife keep working to earn money but the children are not good at home, later they grow up playing and breaking, no matter how much…”.

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After reading the article, instead of supporting her husband to leave his job at home with such a “bargain” salary, most netizens think that it will be the cause of losing family happiness.

Because in marriage, financial independence and economic autonomy are extremely necessary, even as a husband or wife. Many people also draw the scenario that the husband has to ask his wife for money or is tired, pressured with childcare, food, etc., causing everyone to “shake their heads” bored.

Some comments from the online community:

“Given my experience as a wife, I don’t think so. I don’t know who, but like me, I can touch my husband’s money, but if my husband touches my money, my eyes will itch immediately. Either way, you have to mutter a few sentences to accept it”;

“Try to quit your job and go home and take care of the kids, nothing. At that time, his wife used to say that he had to go anywhere but needed money, he didn’t even have a chance to see a thousand bills, let alone a salary of 25 million”;

“It’s like husbands telling their wives to “stop staying at home”, and then everything depends, on a good day they will receive sentences like: stay at home to clean, cook, take care of children. nothing to be tired, spend nothing but run out of money “… At that time you will realize one thing, economically independent, the money you spend is still the best”;

“Don’t be foolish, economic independence is the best”;

“If hiring a maid is not good, hiring more people is fine. Eat and then pay each person 6 million. Still have money to save, still working with salary and double family happiness. If you quit your job and stay at home, you’ll lose your happiness.”

Aries