Bringing my girlfriend home to meet my family, my mother did not object but sighed and said one sentence
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Hi Huong Duong,
I am working at a private hospital. I met L once when she took her baby to the doctor. Twin babies with only L, no husband Go with. A week when the two children were hospitalized, I did not see her husband L come. I also saw her crying silently while taking care of her child. Therefore, I was very impressed with L’s situation.
We were lucky enough to meet each other through the introduction of a friend. I know L already divorce husband, is raising two young children alone. The more I studied back and forth, the more I appreciated L’s courage and tenacity.
But yesterday, after leading L about to debut, I feel confused again. My mother did not object, she said she respects my decision but still wants me to think again. L has two children, am I tolerant enough to accept and love them as my own children? Not to mention common children – stepchildren, am I brave enough to face the problems that arise around those relationships?
L listened to my mother and showed a sad expression. I know she cares for me and what she says is true. I wonder too much. My girlfriend keeps telling me to think carefully, don’t be in a hurry. But I don’t know how to decide? Hope Sunflower helps me. (tuantra…@gmail.com)
Hello,
Your hesitation is understandable. By the one who loves you been divorced and is raising two young children. Two children are the invisible wall between the two.
So, to continue or stop, you need to answer the following questions:
1. Do you really love L and want to spend the rest of your life with her; regardless of L’s past?
2. Can you love and care for your wife’s stepchild as thoughtfully as your own?
3. Has your lover completely decided to be with your ex-husband yet? Is there any bond between her and her ex-husband?
Once you answer those questions, you will find a “path” for your love life. And if you decide to get married, you should tolerate, love and compensate for the suffering that your girlfriend has to endure. Never scrutinize the past, use the past to torment, impose or hurt your lover.
If you still feel confused, follow the advice of your mother and lover, continue to learn for a while and look for the best decision. Do not rush to regret and cause suffering for both.
Dear.
Sunflower.
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