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My husband is old but still romantic with his wife

To have no children is to obey God’s will

– The life of a singer Son Tuyen And how is the husband?

We lived together for decades, very cute! To me, he is a husband, brother, friend and confidant.

My husband and I live a simple life, very suitable for the gym. I eat whatever he eats, I go to the gym, then he follows. Normally, I’m rarely excited about anything but singing. He’s still romantic, he’s old, but he still buys flowers for his wife on holidays. (laugh)

My wife and I hardly argue. Two people living together, of course, have times of friction and anger. But as soon as we started, we immediately “smashed” that emotion, telling each other what we wanted.

I’m not sublime at all. I often ask myself: “Why am I arguing? Are we going to get a divorce?”. When I was young, I always thought that, now that we live together for the rest of our lives, what else is there to be angry with?

Perhaps, I am at peace, not “standing in this mountain and looking at that mountain”. I met him when I was 18 or 19 years old. Living with him, I feel happy, light, that’s enough. The two of you went wrong to fix that.

Someone asked: Isn’t it boring to live together for so long? Oh, it’s a predestined relationship, why is it boring! Happiness is created by us.

We have no children. Many people say that we are husband and wife but like monks. I follow God’s will, I follow the number of stars.

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Son Tuyen and her husband do everything together.

– “According to God’s will”, sounds a bit bitter, doesn’t it?

It all depends on one’s mindset. You have 10 children not necessarily happy. I believe each person has a different number, a different happiness, it’s just that we don’t recognize and keep it.

It’s not that when other people are sad because they don’t have children, I’m sad too. Life is impermanent, no one knows what their tomorrow will be. I know enough with what is there should be happy. We only live one life, so why suffer so much?

I learned how to let go so that the mind is always light. In life, you will have many good and bad things. We often ignore the good, think a lot about the not.

I always say to myself: “Okay, it’s okay, if it doesn’t work, I’ll do something else”, that’s gentle, healthy. I forged this mindset for myself from a young age.

In my profession, I just do my job, not my colleagues. What is not yours will never be yours. Whoever succeeds, I’m happy for them. Therefore, in the past few decades, I have rarely seen my colleagues hate me.

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At the age of 62, Son Tuyen performed not for the sake of the sands.

– How is your life in America?

I live a very normal life. Except for the 2020 outbreak in the US, my life rhythm has been steady for the past few years, nothing has changed or disturbed.

I usually get up at 8am. Around 10:00 a.m., I get out of bed to drink warm water and exercise for about 30 minutes. I cook my own food, mostly vegetarian. Every time my husband eats, he compliments it well! (laugh) I eat little but do not skip any meals, every day drink 2 liters of boiled water to cool.

In the evening, I often listen to music, especially new songs requested by the audience. My song capital is quite a lot, but that doesn’t mean that my whole life I just sing those songs over and over again. After that, I meditate for a bit and then go to bed at 23 – 0 o’clock. My day is like that, at the weekend I carry my suitcase to the show.

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Son Tuyen with his sister – singer Thanh Tuyen.

4 hours a day at the gym, the heart is ‘young forever’

– It sounds so simple, unlike the life of a singer that people often speculate about her?

At this age, I am much different than before. I used to love shopping like many young girls but now I’m excited. My current joy is going to the gym, singing and bringing joy to everyone. I sing for my passion, not for the paycheck.

I don’t have to think about how to maintain my reputation anymore. All I have left are memories with the audience over the past few decades. They remember and still want to hear Son Tuyen sing, that’s all. I’m still healthy, I’m still singing, when I’m not healthy anymore…

At my peak, I was “sick” of being afraid of PR. The press contacted me for an interview, I let my husband answer instead. I’m excited to help my colleagues when I PR, but it’s my turn to be shy. Weird isn’t it! If I’m willing to promote, maybe I’ll be “tougher” than I am now? (laugh) When I return to Vietnam to act or do charity work, I do not want to tell about it in the newspaper.

– Her career is still “intense”. Where is it easy for a young singer to turn Bolero into a famous singer like her?

It is true that few people remember my roots, which are young music, American music. After that, I sang the famous Bolero, sold the record “well” so I switched to this line. I wore ao dai, changed my gestures to be more laid-back. But the fun-loving nature in me is still the same!

I went step by step during that long journey. Youth and memories are the things that follow me for a lifetime. I always remember my youth respectfully, gently, with no regrets.

Strangely, I changed my appearance, my age got older, but my heart remained the same. I’m not trying to “rejuvenate” myself. Every time I go on stage, I really enjoy the atmosphere with the audience and colleagues. I always get along in harmony with the children and grandchildren. Art knows no age, you have no reason to create a generation gap on stage.

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The simple and youthful life of the 62-year-old singer.

– Is a scientific lifestyle the secret to looking younger than your real age?

Every afternoon, I spend 3-4 hours at the gym. I walk for 1 hour, do bodybuilding exercises for 30 – 45 minutes, swim for 45 minutes – 1 hour, the rest of the time I take a sauna and relax.

Thanks to exercise, my body is always healthy, my spirit is positive. Every 6 months, I go for a check-up once. The doctor was surprised because I am over 60 years old but my health is very good, I do not have old age diseases such as high blood pressure, diabetes, …

I go to the gym to be healthy, not to look younger. Luckily, the practice gives me both. (laugh) A few times when I performed, I was called “em” by the younger audience.

At 62, I sing better than when I was younger. God gave me a voice but I don’t have to practice vocals every day, just go to the gym!

In the past, I was quite lazy, I went to the gym to work out for 30 minutes and then returned. I don’t know if God will call me tomorrow? But as long as I live, I must maintain my health and fitness as I am now.

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Son Tuyen misses Vietnam.

– What is not perfect for you?

When my parents were still alive, I was obedient, obedient, and made them happy. When my parents died, I have no regrets since then. I have lived a fairly long, full life with my family, acquaintances, and audience. So even if I have to leave tomorrow, I think I have nothing left unsatisfied.

My family has 17 siblings, I’m the 8th. People often call me “Miss Eight” because of that. In the past, when my parents died, Hai Pure sound like your parents. We love Sister Hai from the past until now. Strangely, throughout their career, sisters Thanh Tuyen – Son Tuyen only sang together a couple of times. Because of this, some people don’t understand this rumor… In real life, Hai and I often ask each other.

I haven’t returned for two years, I miss Vietnam very much, miss the audience. I also miss my hometown Da Lat, some of my brothers and sisters are still here. Others in the US, France, Germany,… Our family is quite special, all 17 brothers and sisters are good singers, but only two are famous enough.

Son Tuyen sings ‘Know when’ (composed by: Lam Phuong)

Son Tuyen and his sister Thanh Tuyen duet song ‘No’ (composed by: Nguyen Anh 9)

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