How to pull my sister out of suffering because of love
At the age of 23, my sister had a boyfriend, more than a year later she broke up. I don’t know why, and she doesn’t seem to complain.
All I know is that she continues to be sad until now. The other guy, after parting for half a year, married his ex-lover and had a child a year later. More than eight years after breaking up with her boyfriend, the 32-year-old woman is still sad. When someone asked her about her lover, husband and children, her tears seemed to overflow. The commemorative gifts she kept in the box, sometimes brought out to look and then cry. She goes to work and then comes home, rarely hanging out with friends. I don’t know if she is happy in the company, she still helps her mother at home, talks normally with everyone, but her sadness is difficult to hide.
About the first two years after breaking up, my parents also advised her, a few times with a comparison when I was sad for a month and then met my husband now, then dozens of people who broke up all had husbands and children, why do you keep going? sad while knowing him for more than a year, not much love. Every time she just kept quiet, only once told her mother that her feelings are not measured in days. Since then, she shared less with her family, her parents loved her but didn’t know what to do.
>> 40 years old I still suffer because of love
As a gentle, gentle, fragile and courageous person, my sister is very popular with everyone. In the last four years, three of her mother’s friends introduced their son to her and wanted her to be their bride. She refused by text message that she had not forgotten her ex, then kept silent. Anyone who visits her house tries to avoid it. My family urged her, told her to learn and then meet new people to forget the old one more quickly. She said she was afraid of hurting people when she was not ready.
Being an introvert, before meeting him, she rarely gathers friends, prefers to be with her family, likes to read books, and grow trees. I tried to invite her to go out, learn to cook, to draw, to learn makeup, to study the piano, but she refused. Yesterday, I met a close friend of hers, and learned that my sister said that the wound was still fresh, because she loved her parents, so she still “exists”. Her friend introduced a few people, but the results were the same as my mother’s friends’ children.
I feel sorry for her and do not understand why she lives in pain for such a long time, or has she experienced any trauma in the past that we do not know? You and those who are introverted, when they love too much or get hurt, it will be hard to forget and torment like that, isn’t it? Are you in love or in love? I learned that she no longer has contact with the other man since the breakup. My mother and I also asked her to go to a psychologist, but she rejected it.
I don’t know if any of you have had a similar case with my sister? Is there any way to help my sister get over this? Thank you.
Diep
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