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Why is it easy to get bored, the honeymoon doesn’t last long?

In all relationships, if prolonged, it will easily become boring and so is the sexual relationship. If husband and wife do not share and warm up, the story will come to a dead end.

No longer wanting it

Just 38 years old, Ms. Vu Hoang Huong – Dong Anh, Hanoi went to the doctor to complain about her sex life. Ms. Huong said that she and her husband work far away from each other. In the past three years, due to the epidemic, the couple met less and less.

When her husband returned from afar, contrary to her expectations, Ms. Huong no longer had any sexual feelings. Her husband himself found that his wife was not interested, so he was no longer interested as before. Every time they get close, her husband tries to prolong the foreplay, but “little girl” is still not welcoming.

Ultrasound for Ms. Huong, the doctor found that her ovaries showed signs of decline. Hormonal tests are also severely reduced. The doctor said that the reason for the decrease in sex drive is due to a decrease in good endocrine system.

As for the case of Mai Lan – Hoang Cau, Hanoi, there is no decrease in hormones, but Lan’s sex life is also dead. Lan and her husband both find the story boring, it’s okay if it’s not.

Doctor Ha Ngoc Manh – Vietnam Belgium Hospital for Menopause and Infertility said that there are many couples, even though they are very young, but their sex stories are open. In fact, if you don’t focus on sex, it will gradually lose its desire and become cold, and family happiness will also be shaken.

The husband and wife relationship needs the most changes, especially in the later stages of married life, life changes not because two people no longer love each other but to discover new aspects of sex life.

Why is it easy to get bored, the honeymoon doesn’t last long?
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Dr. Manh believes that sex is life and it is indispensable in married life. Without sex, people are also prone to depression, which negatively affects health, even more fatigue.

How long will the honeymoon be over?

According to master, doctor Phan Chi Thanh – National Hospital of Obstetrics and Gynecology, many people believe that sex is simply for satisfaction or to maintain the race. However, sex if done in moderation and safely, sex is very beneficial for your health, helping you live longer and happier. But the downside is that in relationships, research shows that the “honeymoon” period only lasts 6 months. Over time, things will not be as exciting as before, the story will also become boring.

In fact, there are many men when they meet the girl they love and they think that it will be the woman they love for the rest of their lives, but in fact, in a short time, they no longer have feelings and begin to get bored.

So there are many marriages people only last within the first year and divorce soon after. The honeymoon period is the period when everyone feels passionate, everyone’s mood is always happy.

People also have a brain CT scan during this honeymoon period, they see your brain as being on a stimulant, so the brain changes greatly. But the brain can’t work like that forever because the body will be exhausted and can no longer do anything else. Honeymoon helps you sublimate, but you can’t focus on the things around.

In the US, it is estimated that in 3000 couples, the frequency of sex is 5-7 times/week, but then there is a level off, sometimes just lying next to each other, having sex 1-2 times a week. People return to their normal routine and over time it becomes boring.

In fact, through medical examination, Dr. Thanh said that most women complain that they no longer need sex, especially between the ages of 40 and 50. Even after menopause, women think that they don’t need to have sex. This sex is very dangerous.

Couples having sex 2 to 3 times a week is reasonable. Couples in their 20s, on average, have sex once every 1-3 days and will gradually decrease to about twice a week for those aged 30-50. People over the age of 50 tend to have sex less than once a week

If when you feel bored, no longer desire, Dr. Manh suggests that couples can rekindle sex and always have to “keep the fire”.

If your sex life always maintains a traditional position, it will be boring. To make your sex life not boring, you need to change sexual positions a lot. Just like the party there are many dishes you will enjoy.

When having sex, you should take advantage of “waking up” sensitive points on the body of your wife and husband. Sensitive positions such as eyes, lips, chest, gliding on the back, ears … will stimulate the opponent. The important thing, the story starts from both sides and should be shared, whispered to be able to understand the other person better.

K.Chi

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