Attending a colleague’s funeral, I immediately filed for divorce in front of my husband

12/05/2022 14:52 GMT+7

My wife and I came together through a relative’s matchmaker. Since we are both old, we decided to have a wedding ceremony after only knowing each other for a few months. As a result, I quickly realized that I was in a hurry to get married.

My husband is a brusque, dry man, with little interest in his wife. He doesn’t remember holidays, his wife’s birthday. I reminded and invited him to eat, he also thought that I drew stories, learned useless things on social networks. I was pregnant, gave birth, and took care of children, and he didn’t bother or ask questions. The child was sick, I alone took him to the doctor. My son was hospitalized, I took a break from work alone and stayed at the hospital to take care of him for a whole week. At times like these, when I see people with husbands helping me, I feel very sorry for myself. But for my children, I always have to try to be strong and resilient.

Just like that, we have been living together for 4 years now and my love for my husband is getting less and less. A month ago, my husband loudly yelled at his mother-in-law because she took my child out without consulting him, leading to the child being bitten by a stray dog ​​and scratched all over his body.

I know that my husband feels sorry for the child, but scolding his mother-in-law with heavy words makes me angry. While it is she who is always helping, being by my side whenever I am in trouble. That time, my husband and I had a big argument. How much love is left for my husband is all broken in me.

Yesterday, I attended the funeral of my colleague’s sister. She lived her whole life for her husband and children. Unexpectedly, the new house was built when she had an accident. It is worth mentioning that at the funeral, her husband did not show any mercy to his wife, but only worried about the money for the funeral.

On the way back, I kept thinking about filing for divorce. And then I decided to free myself. I don’t want to live slowly, live in error, live in misery for the rest of my short life.

When I put the signed divorce papers on the table, my husband was astounded. He yelled at me stupid, crazy. But I decided to pack up and go back to my mother’s house. But now, it is my mother who advises me to return, withdraw the divorce petition, to be patient, to sacrifice for my children. I’m confused, don’t know what to do anymore.

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