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I just broke up and got pregnant

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 1

The love story of Phuong Trinh Jolie and Ly Binh has just turned a new page, with the milestone being a grand wedding that took place on the evening of April 25. Also in this party, the stepdaughter of Phuong Trinh Jolie – baby Mia, officially appeared in public. 9 years of “hiding” her child to protect her from bad news, Phuong Trinh Jolie is now more comfortable sharing her little angel, especially when she has a new life partner to share her joys and sorrows with. teach Mia.

Visiting Phuong Trinh Jolie and Ly Binh’s home after the billion-dollar wedding, people feel the warmth of a harmonious family. There, Mia grew up in the civility and love of adults, meticulously raised by a mother, two fathers, and two grandmothers.

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Listening to Phuong Trinh’s confession in the role of mother, the audience will understand another side of the actress. When there is no aura, she is a mother with very ordinary worries but also extremely respectable, always wanting to bring Mia the best.

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When you heard the news of having a baby, how did you feel?

I found out there was Mia when I broke up with the three children, although we had “released” 3 years before, but we didn’t stick. I just think: “Yeah, I like that kid too” decided to keep the child. At that time I was only 24 years old – an age not too old to think seriously about marriage but I wanted to be responsible for the baby in my belly.

During the pregnancy, the three babies still occasionally texted and visited. When the baby was born, all three and the baby’s grandmother were on duty at the hospital. Then, because of our children, we tried getting back together for a year. However, I realized that marital happiness does not lie in children, but must come from the feelings of two people. I think if living together for a long time is not happy and then divorced, Mia will suffer even more when she has to witness the breakup of her parents. It is only when I know how to feel about the world around me, I already know that my parents are not together, I will not be hurt and have to adapt to a new life.

After 1 year of trying to come back and realize the two are not suitable for each other, I decided to raise the child alone. I feel this is completely normal and not hidden. I just don’t publicize it to protect Mia from the bad news.

When Mia was born, she was still in the career-building phase. Do you have difficulty balancing work and taking care of children?

I did not have too many difficulties because I trained Mia to be independent from a young age, not always needing a mother to “incubate”. In addition, I have hired 2 nannies, a housekeeper and a babysitter. My biological aunt also helps take care of the children when I go to film. The rest of the time, I take care of Mia by myself.

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 5

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 6

What about economic pressure because of raising children alone, ma’am?

I make money from acting, an episode I play the main role will have a salary of about 5-6 million, once receiving 2-3 movies, I still earn a few hundred million per month. This amount is not too much, but it is still enough for me to support my children and pay the maid’s salary. Mia’s paternal side also shares with me the cost of raising children. For example, if I hire 2 nannies, I pay the housemaid’s salary, while the paternal side pays Mia’s caregiver. Then my grandmother bought milk and sent it to her children. Although everything is not too much, but I feel the care.

So what agreement do you and Mia’s father have on child support?

I’m very proud because when I gave birth to Mia, I didn’t ask my paternal side to give me anything. This is also the reason why Thai mother (Grandma Mia) loves me very much, because she understands my personality and personality. I do not have a view to marrying a rich man or letting my husband’s family take care of me. Up until now, I have never asked anyone for any money. If people love you, people will help you, but it’s not that you can’t live without them. From the beginning, the two houses did not have any specific agreement, which was completely voluntary. For example, now my grandmother takes care of Mia’s school fees. When I go home, everyone will take care of me. When the child is at home, Binh and I will take care of him. I do not receive any allowance.

Many families fall into custody disputes after divorce. Have you encountered this situation? The secret to helping you maintain a civilized relationship with Mia’s paternal house?

From the very beginning, I created for myself independent custody of the children. That is the bargaining power of each individual. When I talked about moving out and raising Mia, Grandma’s house was completely open. Mia’s grandmother’s house is extremely civilized and modern, especially Thai grandmother. I am very happy and fortunate to have such a mother-in-law, even though I do not have enough predestined relationships with her.

My biggest secret is to be kind in all matters. If from the very beginning, I set conditions such as if I wanted to visit my grandchild, my mother had to give me 100 million dong or a house, everything would be completely different. But I asked absolutely nothing and stood on my own two feet. Later on, I also did not ask Mia to share the estate, because I determined to teach her to support herself even without parents and family by her side.

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 7

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 8

Before meeting Mr. Ly Binh, have you ever experienced a romantic relationship that people are afraid of because you have a child of your own?

Never. I have always determined that if people love me, they must know my situation, I don’t need to hide it. So from the very beginning, if anyone liked me and I liked someone, I told them I had a baby. If people feel good, get to know each other, if not, continue to be friends.

To have a close relationship like now, two three children also need some time to get used to. As a bridge between Mr. Ly Binh and baby Mia, what actions have you taken?

I just create moments or situations, like outings, for example. Then the two interact with each other. I never force Mr. Binh or Mia to behave like this or that because it all comes from the feelings of each person. Children are very sensitive, if they sense that the person is not good or makes them uncomfortable, they will not open up. Father and son are naturally close, gradually building affection over time.

How has your mother’s life changed since Mr. Binh appeared?

Change a lot. First of all, I have someone to share my joys and sorrows with. As for Mia, Mr. Binh has supported me a lot in teaching my children. There are things, women I am easy to soften but Mr. Binh will be stricter. That’s why it is often said that when educating children, it is necessary to have the softness of the mother and the hardness of the father. When I got married to Binh, I felt very secure, because this man both loved me and Mia, and could teach my children with me.

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After appearing at her mother’s wedding, Mia suddenly became the center of attention. Has your child’s life changed much?

Obviously, when we receive a lot of attention, we will encounter two sides of the same problem. I also told Mia, with constructive comments or compliments, she will accept them. As for anonymous criticisms, you don’t need to care and it’s best that you don’t read the comments.

Maybe at first Mia is not used to receiving attention or being interested in the media, but I believe that habits are built from actions, over time she will become more familiar. I noticed that in her there is confidence, she is not used to it because she has not experienced much but she is very diligent to explore. For example, at that time, I practiced smiling to make the picture more beautiful. My wife and I always educate and create a foundation for our children to adapt to the changes of life.

After publicizing their child, the couple was more comfortable in filming clips with the baby, telling everyone about the child, uploading pictures of the baby, etc. Have you ever felt regret for not making your child public? earlier?

I don’t use children as tools of fame. Right from the beginning of my career, I determined that if I had talent, the audience would love me, but I did not try to seek attention. She appeared at the wedding ceremony at the right time, because now I have found a real home and want to officially introduce her to my friends and loved ones.

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 10

Phuong Trinh Jolie first talked about her daughter's biological father and the reason for being a single mother: I just broke up and got pregnant - 11

Mia is obedient and understanding like that, how did you educate her children?

I trained her to be independent from a young age so she could take care of herself. Then you will be responsible for your actions. For example, if you let your child arrange their own things, they will know that they need to choose the right items for them, if they take too much, they will not be able to carry it and have to adjust it themselves. Recently, I went to Long Hai beach with my parents and got sunburned on both arms. I don’t scold him, but I teach him to learn from experience so that next time he goes swimming, he will choose a longer-sleeved shirt. When you know how to arrange small things by yourself, surely for the rest of your life, you will be able to arrange big things.

I’m very interested in Mia’s education, what gifted and extra-curricular subjects have she been studying at the moment? She oriented her child to pursue an artistic career like her mother.

I learn English, math, rollerblading, ballet, gymnastics, parkour. Among them, I like roller skating and gymnastics the most. I also want to let my child learn the piano and bought it ready, but right now, he is not interested in learning.

As for Mia’s future work, as long as she likes it and finds it suitable, I will support it. Because when I like, I find joy and achieve the best results.

Mia grew up in a family with good conditions, you must have invested a lot of money in raising children?

Talking about the cost, I don’t know how much or how little, because this depends on the economic condition of each family. As I have shared, Mia’s biological grandmother supports a lot in her child’s learning, as long as she likes to learn something, she will register. As for the specific expenses for children, there are so many, I can’t count them all.

In the past, I had a “child addiction” so I loved shopping for Mia, every time I went abroad, I bought a lot of expensive clothes for her. However, I realize that children grow up very quickly, so if they dress too expensive, it will be a waste. That money can be used to invest and accumulate for children.

Besides, Mia is also very frugal. Once, when I saw a dress of 990,000 VND, I immediately shouted: “Oh my god, why is the dress so expensive. I won’t buy it”. I must advise him to: “My mother buys it for a long time, she can save it, I’ll just buy it.”

Specifically, how do you plan to accumulate finances for your children?

I usually save money to buy gold for my children. For example, this year Mia has a lucky money of 40 – 50 million, I will make up for it and buy her 2 gold trees. Later, when she receives an ad or something, I will exchange it for gold so that it won’t be “depreciated”.

Officially returning to the same house after 4 years of love, have you and your husband planned to welcome a new member?

We are ready and waiting for the good news. My wife and I have the same opinion “Every child is a child”, so it doesn’t matter the baby’s gender. Mia is also looking forward to having you soon.

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