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The surprising answer to the question why do men like to close themselves when they have emotional problems?

Men always think women are difficult to understand and vice versa. But everyone has simple and complicated corners in their innermost being that sometimes even they don’t realize.

Many women will wonder, in an intimate relationship why men often choose to close themselves and avoid problems when two people have conflicts or quarrels?

Closed behavior This men’s will make women feel lost, distant and do not understand their true position in his heart. But men are not always good at communicating with their lovers, with their partners.

Why do men like to shut up when they have emotional problems?  - This is the most convincing answer!  - Photo 1.

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There are many reasons to explain this reaction of men. Maybe it is related to the way of thinking and thinking formed from the living environment, the family’s point of view. Eg: “Being a man must be strong”, “Being a man must not cry, should not quarrel with women”… so in their perception by default they can’t be as weak as women.

But men are not superheroes anyway, they also have times of hurt, helplessness, despair. So if he has a problem in his relationship, when there is no way to solve it, he chooses to stay silent.

An important reason why men choose to isolate themselves is this: In a mature and experiential environment, they have never or rarely been accepted by others to express their true feelings.

So, when there is a problem and conflict occurs between two people, if we want men to open their hearts, calmly sit down and discuss, we need to do one thing first: Accept it. Let’s accept that he has his own personality, thoughts and feelings. He also has moments of vulnerability, helplessness… And the premise to accept is that we have to make them feel safe.

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As a wife, as a lover, how will you feel when you see your man in tears, when he is red in the face fighting with his personal feelings or when he reveals the darkest corner of himself?

When learning to face and accept, it is very likely that you yourself will be hurt by things not going as you expected.

If we can’t accept our own negative emotions, we won’t be able to accept the fragility and weakness of that man.

In fact, when a man is silent, he will be worried that his negative emotions will affect you, that you will not be able to accept the truest side of him. He is more worried from small conflicts that push the relationship to a point where it is difficult to salvage. So to quickly end, men can only choose to avoid problems, isolate themselves.

So don’t be in a hurry to make assumptions when you haven’t heard your man’s own mouth share and confess. Don’t be too proud of yourself or your ego and “have a test” to see who will take the initiative first. If you value the relationship, when things settle down ask him why he’s acting the way he does. Doing that will not only save the situation but also make men respect you more.

Every problem that occurs is not in the nature of difficulty – easy in troubleshooting, but in your own problem-solving mindset. A smart, sophisticated woman will know how to actively deal with and handle it, not passively waiting to be “made up”.

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