Having a child with her ex-husband after three years of divorce

From time to time we also talk to each other like friends. In 2021, during a party together, I was pregnant with him. His family all knew I was pregnant but did not say hello. Only his sister called, texted to ask a few times until my baby was full month.

>> I betrayed my husband and had a child with my ex

Since I gave birth until now, my ex-husband has not provided any money for my mother and children, only made a few phone calls to look at the child and then cut off contact. If so, should I let my child adopt the paternal side when he grows up (when the paternal side wants to adopt him) or not? I don’t want my child to adopt the paternal side, but I know when the child grows up, the decision is up to him, right? I would like to ask for your advice, thank you very much.

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