Every day, watching her children have fun chasing butterflies, picking flowers, blowing bubbles at home, taking care of their favorite Vietnamese flower beds and vegetable beds, Ms. Vuong Huong Trang (32 years old) feels satisfied with life in Korea. . Although she and her husband are not rich, they do not have to worry about the economy as much as before and have a house to satisfy their dream of a gardener.
Trang’s small nest.
Korean husband proposed marriage with 102
Trang’s family currently has 4 members, her husband is 44-year-old Korean man Kim Taeseok. In addition, she has 2 daughters, the eldest is 7 years old and the second one is 3 years old.
Sharing about the love story of her husband and wife, Ms. Trang said that she works in a Korean company, often works with foreign experts in English, so she often goes to forums to chat with people. foreign languages improve. In November 2014, she had the chance to meet Mr. Taeseok.
“My first impression was that my husband spoke very bad English. My husband mostly uses google translate with Korean. I don’t understand why the husband and wife understand each other so well, maybe that’s why they can love each other. We’ve been talking all day.” Trang shared.
At that time, Mr. Taeseok worked in Bac Ninh, so after 1 month, they decided to meet to see if they really matched in real life before deciding to love or not. However, when he first met her, she let him climb a tree for 2 hours while he waited for her at the pier.
“At that time, I said that the company was busy with an urgent meeting, so I got off work late, but in fact, I was hesitant about whether to go and meet because I didn’t believe in online love before. When I went there, my husband’s phone ran out of battery, so I was using enough English and Vietnamese words to ask to borrow a phone from a friend passing by to call me. When he saw himself, his face was like a drowning man meeting a lifebuoy, so funny.”Ms. Trang recalls.
After deciding to love really from that first meeting, every week, Mr. Taeseok comes back to Hai Duong from Bac Ninh to play. He even hired a translator and invited her parents to dinner to ask for permission for the two to fall in love. It was that maturity and deep thought that Trang’s parents did not object to, only told her to research carefully before deciding to get married.
He proposed to her with a bouquet of white roses and a half-threaded gold ring.
Sharing about Taeseok’s proposal for her, Trang smiled and said, her husband proposed with a white rose and a half-threaded gold ring. At that time, she thought in her head, “It’s weird that a proposal has 102 because it’s usually red roses and engagement rings”. However, because of cultural differences and delicate issues, she did not dare to ask. Only later when she returned to the same house, she told her husband that she knew the reason.
“My husband said that a white rose represents a promise that lasts a lifetime, and my gold ring because it never loses its value, and I chose too many western gold models, so I didn’t know which model to choose, so I chose my gold ring for a single purchase. simple”, Trang smiles.
Husband is unemployed, he is alone to bear the burden
It is known that after 5 months of proposing, Trang and Taeseok got married. After 3 months of marriage, there were some problems, so her husband quit his job. For 6 months, he searched for a job, returned to Korea, and went to the Philippines for 2 months. Trang had to work alone and take care of the economy for both of them.
At that time, she was still pregnant with a big baby, but because she always thought that being husband and wife had to suffer together, they all tried. In particular, she always tries to encourage her husband to be optimistic to find a suitable job and never say or blame her husband for not taking care of her.
“I always tell my husband, everyone has difficult times, now that I can take care of it, I will shoulder it, maybe later when I am unemployed, he will take care of me.” Ms. Trang confided.
When she first came to Korea, she and her husband faced many difficulties.
Married life cannot avoid quarrels, every time a couple has an argument, both of them set a clear rule that they will make a cup of warm tea, sit across from each other, one of them says his opinion and the other says his opinion. the other person is not allowed to argue or block words, must listen and then the other person will say his or her opinion. Thanks to that, she and her husband understood each other. Besides, no matter how difficult it is, the couple always encourages each other, not sparing praise for the other when they can do even the smallest thing. Especially on her salary day, Ms. Trang always tells her husband “Thank you for a month of hard work to take care of the family” or simply her husband will thank his wife when he cooks a delicious dish or his favorite dish.
After more than 1 year, her husband changed jobs continuously and still couldn’t find a suitable job, plus she gave birth to a baby and couldn’t work, so the couple decided to return to Korea with empty hands. Trang still remembers when she was 1 year old when she first came to Korea, that time was extremely terrible for her and her husband. With a small child, her husband works alone with a low salary, so she and her husband have to rent a small house in a rural area, it takes only 1 or 2 groceries for 30 minutes to go. Not to mention there is nothing in the house, only a small refrigerator, a washing machine, a gas stove and only 1 room, cooking on the balcony without a car. Her husband’s meager salary has to pay for all kinds of rent, food, living expenses and even savings.
“I remember when the husband and wife were under a lot of stress, I went from 50kg to 39kg. Moreover, it was a cold winter with snow, so it was not suitable for the weather, both mother and child were sick, their language was unknown, but the husband went to work from 7 am to 9 pm, so he had to go to the hospital alone. At that time, Koreans barely knew English, so I could barely speak Korean. There are times when I go alone, take my baby to the doctor, and then there are times when the nurse has to take care of the baby for me.”Ms. Trang confided.
Her family’s simple, peaceful life in Korea.
Fortunately, after that, Trang’s husband applied for a new company with a better salary, so her life gradually improved. Until now, she and her husband do not have to worry as much about the economy as before. She and her husband also bought a house to satisfy her dream of gardening. She can grow flowers, grow her favorite Vietnamese vegetables, or simply give her children home camps, afternoon teas, weekend vegetable harvesting experiences, or simply chasing butterflies, picking flowers, blowing bubbles football, swimming outdoors at home, things that many Korean children rarely have because of living in apartments. Currently, she is satisfied with her life.
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