Should you stop providing financial support for your husband’s business?

I am 38 years old, my husband is 39 years old. In 2008, when I was 25 years old, after a few years of working, I opened a company, then it was just a branch, independent financial accounting. At that time, the company I managed was doing well and had a good reputation in the industry. I am a business-oriented person, not detailed, not calculated well. In 2011, I met and married him. Because he works in the same industry, he understands the work, comes to work with me, he does the project and I manage. In 2013, we opened our own company, because we realized that the market was saturated, so he often started other businesses, but failed to do so, leading to more and more bank loans and interest.

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In 2021, my husband will start a business again, this time I agree because I see a future, in fact after more than a year, there is still no revenue. I work at my current company, earn very little money to support three children, pay bank interest. My husband loves his family and his wife and children, but the type of business does not know how to calculate, or loses, many times doing big projects that seem to be high profits, but due to wrong calculations, every time he loses several hundred million dong. . He is very inquisitive, creative, technological, biological, social, communicative… everything I see he can do but he doesn’t have money to do it all the time.

Currently, we quarrel every day, I often borrow money for my husband to do but then he does not pay it back, leading to debt. Should I stop supporting, let him take responsibility or continue to give money to my husband? I plan to stop, sell the house to pay the debt and then do what everyone else does.

I’m 39 years old, I can still start again, if I keep borrowing money for you like this, I don’t know when you will have revenue. Stop, I’m afraid I’ll be unfinished like the previous times, but if I persist, I don’t know when he will succeed. Looking forward to your advice.

Flower

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