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Women cheat for many years, why don’t men know?

The needle in the bag has been exposed for a long time, those who think they can really keep this secret forever, are their husbands really unaware of their wives’ unfaithfulness after so many years? Hear about their experiences.

Sister D., had an affair for 11 years

“I am a woman with a difficult life, married to a traitor. He not only lives without purpose, but also indulges in gambling every day. In his eyes, there is only gambling, no matter what. cares about his family, does not love his wife and children.In his eyes, there is no me, he has never cared about me, comforted me, encouraged me, as if I did not exist.

I sought comfort from another man. He also has a family, but we are still attached to each other because being with him makes me feel so warm.

My husband didn’t know I was having an affair for so many years, because he didn’t care about me at all. For the past ten years, he has only gambled, if not gambling, then gathering with friends like him, coming home very late every day…

Many times when I go on a date with a mistress, just open the door and sleep in the hotel. My husband is still busy at the casino, so I don’t know where his wife is going.

Sometimes I bring my mistress home, every time my husband comes back, I’m done with my lover, he’s gone, and my husband will never know that I’m unfaithful.”

An, 8 years of unfaithfulness

“After I got married, I had no intention of betraying, I thought I was the type of woman devoted to family. But I didn’t expect my husband to be the first to betray, and he has always lived like that. , constant.

I had many times of crying with swollen eyes, thinking a lot, and having severe depression, finally I couldn’t stand it, I decided to live for myself. If my husband doesn’t need me, I will find another man who appreciates me more.

My husband of course hurt me again, and that was the last drop of water that overflowed, I chose to live more openly. When I met my lover later, I didn’t feel I was wrong because I knew him.

My work is quite stressful, but once I finish handling it, I will be able to rest so I can take advantage of going to meet my lover. We had sex for a few hours and then we arranged to go home with the baby.

My husband is busier than his wife, often goes on business trips, traveling too, he said he was going to meet customers but I knew it was going with his mistress. However, he did not know that he was also cheating. And even if I knew, maybe my husband wouldn’t mind, or would he be mad? And ask for a divorce without dividing the property? I shouldn’t have let him know anyway.”

Thanh N., 10 years of adultery

“My marriage has entered the 15th year, my husband is incompetent, does not earn a lot of money, he makes a few million a month, not enough to spend. When I gave birth to a child, I had to ask my mother-in-law to take care of my grandchildren. I later found a new company with a much better income, also because I met my lover at that time.

Dating secretly for three years, he gave me a lot of money. Then I started a small company by myself. My lover has given me many benefits that I have never had in my life.

To make my husband not suspicious, I said I borrowed money to set up a company. My husband probably doesn’t believe it because he thinks that without the support of women, he can’t set up a company. He may have suspected it but didn’t say it…

I have been in an abusive relationship for 10 years now, without any incidents. It’s not that I don’t tell the truth, but my husband doesn’t say anything, he knows he can’t support his family, so he still needs to rely on me.

If my affair broke out, I would definitely get a divorce, and so my husband’s pressure would still be great. Maybe that’s why he still pretends to know nothing.”

A woman who has been having an affair for many years without being discovered, actually, is not necessarily because they know how to hide it, it’s just that their husband doesn’t care, or doesn’t want to say it.

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Although there are many reasons for adultery, it is certain that marriages in which adultery happens are not easy, maybe the people involved do not want to break up because they are afraid to hurt their children, afraid of financial pressure. … but they themselves are very bored with marriage.

If the marriage fails and the two people, despite all their efforts, still cannot communicate with each other, then break up, because being together is no longer interesting anyway, freeing yourself to find true love is not Would it be happier than living a parallel life in the dark?

And if you choose to keep your marriage, please cultivate it wholeheartedly, don’t selfishly think about finding outside sources of joy to compensate and comfort your feelings, because that’s always a hurtful thing to the other party. even if there is no love in marriage.

According to Dan Tri

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