Arriving at my boyfriend’s house, I saw a big house and large land, I hurriedly married, didn’t expect life to be bitter

I met my husband in 2009. At the first meeting, he liked and tried to follow my age. But at that time, I was a receptionist at a big hotel and he was just a taxi driver. The difference in work and education made me not very interested in him.

However, during the New Year holiday that year, the group of friends that the two played together invited each other to his house to eat and drink. They dragged me along.

When I got to his door, I was startled. It was a massive four-story house. There is a spacious orchard in front and behind the house.

At that time, a friend whispered in my ear, if you come here to become a bride, you won’t have to worry about food in the future. I also realized that, so after that day, I opened my heart to him more.

Half a year later, we got married in the envy of many friends and colleagues. My relatives in the countryside who went to the wedding were also thrilled when they saw your house. Everyone said, I married you like a stag rat.

However, human calculation is not equal to heaven calculation. I got married and then I found out that there were many storms inside that beautiful house.

His parents quarreled and fought as usual. Her husband’s brother was addicted to drugs, so the wife left, leaving 2 young children. When I returned to be a bride, my husband’s parents always assigned me to take care of my two grandchildren.

And yet, after his wife left, I took care of the children, and he also took his girlfriend to live in the same room. The girl was probably also addicted to drugs, so the two of them closed the door all day. When it’s time to eat, they don’t come out or make me bring the food to the door.

I just went to work, had to take care of and pick up 2 children to go to school, and take care of food for the whole family, so I was skinny.

More importantly, when I returned to live together, I discovered that my husband was also a gambling addict. He always used the excuse of driving and then turning to his friend’s place to play cards all day and all night. One day he came home at 6am.

For a whole year and a month, he did not give me any money. If he asked for money, he would curse loudly and even beat me.

In 2011, when I was pregnant with my first child, his mother had to cut 100m2 of land behind the house to sell to pay off debt for her drug-addicted son. A year later, my husband reported a debt of more than 3 billion because of losing cards. His parents had to cut the land to sell again.

In that case, I made a fuss with him, even demanding to file for divorce. But he apologized, promised to quit gambling, and start over with me, so I forgave him.

When I saw that he had cultivated, I urged him to ask his parents to let him live on his own, but he said that if he left now, his parents would not give him money to buy a house. The house and land of parents will all belong to the brother. Therefore, the couple tried to stay, waiting for the right occasion to tell their parents to divide the land.

Unexpectedly, by this time, all the land in front and behind the house had been sold out, leaving only the 4-storey house. However, recently, I heard that my brother-in-law was about to report billions in debt. I feel extremely discouraged. I think, if we continue to live like this, soon our whole family will be out on the street, with nothing left to sell.

Should I tell my husband’s parents about the division of property before my brother destroys it all?

Hope people give me advice?

Readers Nguyen Kim