At 10 p.m. I returned from a business trip, my husband said a sentence that made the 7-year marriage end-Young

Our marriage of 7 years ended just like that, but maybe I was wrong from the start.

Despite the family’s objections, we still registered our marriage. (Illustration)

My husband and I met by accident at a coffee shop. Perhaps it was love at first sight, so even though they had just met, they both felt like they had known each other for a long time. After that, we often texted and dated, and our love grew.

After 1 month, feeling that love was ripe, he proposed to me and I also nodded in agreement immediately. However, the families of both sides opposed this marriage, because they thought that we were too hasty.

My mother scolded: You are also 23 years old, why can’t you think a little more maturely. Who’s going to get married to someone they’ve only known for a month? Marriage is not a joke, you will regret it later!

However, at that time I simply thought, he is so good, I will definitely be happy. After getting married, my wife and I will live separately, not having to interact much with our parents, so there should be no problems.

As time goes by, our parents will see our love for each other and accept this marriage. Thinking that, I stole the household registration book, secretly went to register my marriage with the man I love.

But what I didn’t expect was that when they fell in love, their love was so beautiful, but after marriage, there was such a big change. After getting married, I found that my husband is not a gallant, thoughtful man as before.

He is very patriarchal, always thinks that cleaning the house is the responsibility of women, so he never touches anything. On the contrary, when I come home from work, I have to go back to cooking and cleaning.

Many times I asked him to help me, but he just calmly asked me in return: Do you see any men in the kitchen, cleaning the house?

But of course, that’s just his excuse and no matter what I say it won’t change a thing. At that time I wanted a divorce, but unexpectedly I was pregnant. Because of the child in my stomach, I had to be patient, hoping that my husband would change for the sake of the child.

Unexpectedly, once again I was wrong. I have very severe morning sickness, plus the busy work makes me very tired. Sometimes I complain to my husband, but he says:

– It’s just pregnancy. What woman doesn’t have to go through this, do you need to overdo it? If you feel so tired, then you should quit your job, it’s not like I can’t take care of you.

Having morning sickness while going to work, doing housework makes me very tired. (Illustration)

Listening to my husband say, I tried to hold back my tears, then I also quit work. When my son was 3 years old, I discussed with my husband about my return to work, but he brushed it off:

– I focus on teaching and taking good care of my children. We are not in need, need you to go to work.

I also listen to my husband, stay at home wholeheartedly take care of my family, but every day I hang around in the kitchen, making me feel secret, unable to be happy. Seeing that I was unhappy, my husband offered to let me go back to work.

Due to being a housewife for so long, it was difficult for me to find a suitable job. Seeing that the gap between me and today’s young people is too great, I have tried a lot at work, so that family affairs are also neglected.

Not long ago, I had a short business trip. When I called home, I saw that his tone was more polite than before, there were no problems with the children, so I thought he had changed, already knew how to take care of children and do housework.

The first sentence my husband said when I got home from work made me want a divorce. (Illustration)

Because the business trip came back earlier than expected, I called my husband in advance, saying that I would come back for dinner so he could cook for me. At 10 pm I got home, but when I opened the door, the scene inside made me dizzy. The whole house is garbage, stinks, dirty dishes are displayed on the kitchen, the whole house is no different from a deserted house.

– Why is the house so messy?

– During the time I go on a business trip, I have to order food from outside to eat. Now that you’re back, I’m so happy, I haven’t eaten at home for a long time, so hurry up and cook for me.

Hearing my husband’s words, my heart was full of bitterness, I thought he had changed but I was wrong again. I looked at him, regained my composure, and said:

– Man, let’s get a divorce. We are not compatible. After I got married, I took care of all the big and small things in the house, you didn’t help me at all. In my eyes, men are always noble, and you are nothing.

I thought that when I went to work, you would understand my hard work for a long time. I thought I would have a warm meal when I returned from work, but I was wrong. I’m too selfish, I only think about myself but never think about how you feel. So let’s get a divorce, I’ve had enough.

Our 7 year marriage ended just like that. I was wrong from the beginning, if I had listened to my mother’s advice, I might be different now.