When I was still in love, I was somewhat embarrassed about my mother-in-law when I heard people say she was a pretty terrible person. However, after meeting a few times, I didn’t realize what people were saying. Moreover, my lover also promised me that he would bring me happiness, not force me to do anything too hard. After the wedding, the couple will also move out to live comfortably, without having to worry about being a bride or a complicated mother-in-law relationship.
I used to feel secure about his words, but now I realize that a promise is still just a promise. Up to now, the couple has had a small member but still have to live together. I sometimes joked and talked about the story my husband once promised me when he scowled. He told me to compare and calculate. Women who return to their husband’s house do not know their fate and refuse to become brides.
Living together indeed, I also have to endure a lot. Mother-in-law is a difficult person, or considers every detail. She will immediately protest as soon as she does something that doesn’t go her way. When she went to work, she saw me dressed a little better, and she glared at her and suggested that her daughter-in-law play while her husband went to work. While in reality my husband gives me only 1/3 of what I earn every month. Moreover, everything in the house is done by me.
The strict mother-in-law, who was often scrutinizing, still considered herself “the navel of the universe”. She asked me to give my husband’s salary to her. Of course I refused because I still needed to get more anyway. That account is to take care of the family. Because from electricity and water bills, monthly meals to measuring rice… I have to take the initiative. Even when my mother-in-law is sick, I take care of it without ever complaining about money.
Just because I don’t accept my husband’s salary to my mother-in-law, she doesn’t like me better. The relationship between our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became more and more discordant.
Knowing my mother-in-law’s nature, I always take care of everything. When I got home from work, I quickly changed my clothes and rushed to the kitchen to cook. Many days after the meal was over, I was too tired, I didn’t want to eat, so I went to bed and rested, but my mother-in-law said unpleasantly. Day by day, life goes on like that, but my husband’s parents do not recognize me. She continued to show her displeasure which made me really sad.
I talked to my husband and he said I only know myself. He said that I must be filial to his parents, treating them as my own biological parents to expect to be treated kindly. However, he did not understand, my mother-in-law did not consider me as a daughter.
Gradually I found myself isolated in my husband’s family. I have no need to share or talk to anyone. There was a time when my husband was not sympathetic and thought I was making excuses to pretend when I was tired in bed, making me resentful.
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After being infected with COVID, my health somewhat declined. Many days, when I am tired, I have to sit for a long time after eating before I can get up. There was a time when I was tired and didn’t want to wash the dishes, I skillfully asked my husband to help me wash so I could go on vacation. Seeing that, my mother-in-law said that I suppressed my husband. My husband sat with me as if nothing happened. I couldn’t take it anymore, I got so hot that I threw down the bowls.
Right after that, I said directly to my husband: “If you want to keep your wife and children, the husband and wife will live separately. Otherwise, you can stay there and live with your parents. Now I will let the children go with me. a week of thinking, if you still can’t get along, then we’d better get a divorce.” After that, I went upstairs to pack my things and leave the house. My mother-in-law saw that I normally held back, but now that I reacted like that, she was extremely stunned.
Despite my husband’s words, I still took my children. I think I need to change so I shouldn’t hold back forever. I am economically active, but why should I choose to live a tired, miserable life with a man who does not love me and only listens to my mother.
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