Husband and wife don’t sleep together, is it normal only when doing sex?

Hello,

When it comes to married life, people often think of the phrase “huddle head, hands and knees”, so it’s not unusual for his wife to be dissatisfied with the state of sleeping separately, especially if he and his wife are under the age of 40. .

However, many couples choose “separate sleeping solutions” for their special circumstances, for example, one of them has difficulty sleeping while the other snores loudly, or is not suitable for sexual needs. or the time is not suitable as in the case of him and his wife… If both people agree to this “solution”, the above-mentioned couples will still get along and they will still find their own moments to be close to each other. The case of him and his wife is different, he likes this “solution” but she doesn’t like it.

I hope you have read or will read the book “The Five Love Languages” by American psychologist Dr. Gary Chapman. According to the author, there are many couples who love each other deeply, but when they get married, they are not happy. The reason for this situation is because each person usually uses 1-2 main love languages, if lucky, the couple uses the same language, but what if they are not lucky? Therefore, knowing your own love language as well as that of your spouse and learning how to use each other’s “language” is paramount in married life.

“Cuddles” or “body touches” are considered by Gary Chapman to be the fifth “love language”. Through your confession, I think your wife can use this “love language”. Therefore, brothers and sisters should discuss more openly with each other on the issue of disagreement.

If, after listening to his explanation, she still insists on refusing, then he has to give her up, there’s no loss if I change a habit for the sake of love and family happiness, right? Wishing you a happy married life!