The touching letter a father sent to his daughter who got a bad grade 5 years ago suddenly became “hot” again

Children who are obedient, study well, and achieve high scores are always the wishes of all parents. Every exam season, parents work hard to help their children revise, and then look forward to their children’s scores every day.

However, in addition to 9 points, 10 points, many parents also put their children’s mood first. They expect their children to have valuable experiences and learn for themselves after the tests. The case of one parent below is typical. When he learned that his son did not score well in the semester exam, the father wrote a gentle and emotional letter to encourage his daughter.

At the beginning of the letter, the father affirmed that the exam results were not too bad but also did not make his parents happy. Then he consoled: “I think test scores don’t reflect a person’s special abilities. The teachers who set the questions and grade them cannot understand me and my friends like my aunts, uncles, aunts and especially my parents or my friends’ parents.”

Throughout the letter, the father repeatedly listed his son’s plus points to help boost his confidence. Finally, he affirmed that each person is always proud of their score and will always strive to have a high score. But exams are not the only way to prove yourself.

In the comments section, many parents agree with the above opinion. “That’s right, I just need to finish the subjects. There is no one who is all-round good, getting perfect scores in all subjects.”the NNT account commented.

“My family is the same, always encouraging my children to study but never blaming or scolding when they do not get good grades. You need to fall a few times before you can grow.”shared DM account.

“Thank you for sharing the article, the way to teach children is very good, I will try to apply it”the MO account writes.

Although it is causing a “storm” on the forums, this letter was written in 2017. “Let’s meet again”, before each exam season, the online community shares the letter with the hope that the parents will no longer be. place emphasis on children’s grades.

Here is the letter that went viral on the internet:

“I love you!

The results of this semester’s exam I’ve seen, it’s not too bad, but it doesn’t make me happy, and neither do you and your brother. But, seeing how your brother protected you, complimented you on the highest History score in class, I’m very happy that your brother is very smart and loves you too.

To be honest, my Math scores aren’t pleasing to anyone, but otherwise it’s fine. You need to try harder, especially in Math.

I think test scores don’t reflect a person’s special abilities. The teachers who set the questions and grade them cannot understand me and my friends like my aunts, uncles, aunts and especially my parents or my friends’ parents.

Test scores can’t tell everyone how much experience you have, how many people you have walked, known, loved. It also doesn’t tell everyone about my joys, my sorrows and my beautiful dreams, how I’m trying to move towards that dream.

Test scores can’t tell everyone that you can be funny, make people laugh (and sometimes make people angry too).

Test scores don’t tell anyone how good you are at the piano. I can write poetry very quickly and emotionally.

In short, test scores can’t tell everyone that your child is a good person, loves people, and has many other special abilities.

So test scores are just scores. We are proud of our scores and will always strive for high scores. But if unfortunately the score is not desired, always remember, we have many ways to prove ourselves. Exams are absolutely not the only way!”.