The wife took the comforter to dry, something fell from the blanket revealing the truth about her husband

Not long ago, a woman in Anhui province (China) shared a story about discovering her husband’s black fund by accident. On a beautiful Saturday, the wife decided to clean the house and wash the blankets and sheets. When she took the comforter out to the balcony to dry, she was alarmed when she discovered that a lot of money had fallen from the blanket, all of which fell on the neighbor’s downstairs balcony.

The neighbors downstairs were surprised so they went to check, and they witnessed a literal rain of money. Looking up, they asked the wife what happened, the wife, although embarrassed, still replied that she would come down to get it back. In fact, she found it extremely difficult to solve, not knowing whether to go down to pick up the money or stand on the balcony and call the police to prevent neighbors from stealing money.

In the end, the girl did not call the police, she and the neighbors gathered together the money, totaling 30,000 yuan (106 million VND). When her husband came home, he confessed that it was his Tet bonus, which he hid to save to buy his own house, but he didn’t expect it. black fund was discovered again.

“Your husband must think he is very smart to hide his money in a comforter”; “He must be crying inside”; “Luckily it just fell at the neighbor’s house, otherwise it’s gone”; “My house also has it same thing, but my dad found out about my mom’s black fund” – many netizens commented excitedly when the story was posted.

How to behave when discovering that a spouse hides a black fund?

According to the concept from time immemorial, when two people have decided to “collect rice to blow rice together”, it means that both sides work together to build a home. Property at this time is reduced to one term and women are often the key holder. Because of that, most people often think that lying, hiding from the other side to set up a black fund as their own is an indecent, non-transparent behavior and a hidden sign of a marriage.

However, there is a paradox that most people are ashamed or afraid of being discovered lying to their spouse about setting up a black fund, but many people still do it. And it’s clear that hiding personal money, or lying to your spouse about finances, can seriously damage a marital relationship.

In fact, according to a fact-finding survey conducted in the US, 75% of respondents said that lying about money has affected current or past relationships. theirs in some way.

Among those who kept their money a secret from their spouse, 44% said it caused an argument and 35% said it caused a loss of trust in the relationship. husband and wife relationship.

Even worse, 13% of people say these secrets eventually lead to divorce and 10% say lying leads to separation.

According to Dr. Carla Marie Manly, a clinical psychologist based in Sonoma County, California, USA: “A relationship is built on a solid foundation of mutual trust and respect, and there’s generally no need to hide money or finances from your partner.