Likes going to useless gatherings, caring too much whether other people like me or not

If working hard was the only way to get rich, that would be the sweetest lie anyone would want to hear. Because if the time you spend working is proportional to your wealth, then no one can compare to those who are having to do manual labor to earn every penny to maintain their lives, those who get up early and leave late will be the richest fast man. The rich never get rich by working hard, they rely on investing.

People with money and people without money have very different ways of working. People without money are incapable of distinguishing between high and low values ​​in life. So their whole life has been, is and will be wasted in vain on people and things of low value. They were going in the wrong direction from the start, and no matter how hard they tried, it was futile. Like the fact that you are struggling in life to support yourself, you decide to marry a boyfriend who has a lower education and economy than you. He is a person who knows how to say sweet words, makes you happy for a moment, but never shows it in action, has an attitude like to receive, not to give. With that kind of person, no matter how much you give, to him, it still doesn’t matter.

Things of low value are divided into two categories: one is work and the other is the social environment. In terms of work, those who are economically inadequate will prefer simple work as part of their time and energy. For example, an assembly line worker in a factory, works more than ten hours a day with a salary of about 10 million/month. Even if Jack Ma does this type of work, the Chinese billionaire is only paid the same salary as other workers of the same position. Even though they work hard every day, life is still the same. The reason is that this job only requires the movement of hands and feet, does not require thinking, so the way of thinking remains unchanged.

Regarding the social environment, people who do not have much money like to participate in useless social gatherings with some friends with face but not content. Going to this birthday party, going to that wedding, obviously not familiar but if you go, you will show off expensive dresses, expensive bags or shoes that have to wait two months of salary to buy. These fun are completely useless, even waste a lot of time and energy.

Push people who are like you right now out of your circle of friends and social circles. Don’t care if other people like you or not. What if people with flashy outer shells, hollow inside like you? Will they pay the monthly rent, invite you to dinner every day? They will be just like you, no shortage of fun, but when you need to borrow money, don’t give it. People without money always care too much about whether others like them or not, always lower their self-worth just because they want others to have a good impression such as active, sociable… but your true self. How, you do not dare to show, others do not bother to find out.

We have to admit the fact that time and human energy are limited. You only have 24 hours in a day, 12 hours to work, 6 hours to sleep, and the remaining 6 hours to live life. If you spend your time and energy on too many people and things of low value, how do you have the time and energy to create more value?