Never blamed her husband for the outside noises

Singer’s wife Long Nhat Full name is Vu Thi Kim Ngan, born in 1980 in Hai Phong. From the age of 14, 15, Kim Ngan participated in the Hai Phong Beauty contest and entered the top 10. In particular, she also won the Beauty with the most beautiful eyes award.

Although Kim Ngan passed the entrance exam to 2 colleges, because her parents wanted her children to study close to home, Kim Ngan chose to attend Hai Phong School of Culture and Arts. That year, the school held a singing contest for students, singer Long Nhat was invited to be a judge. Also at this competition, they met. And only half a year later, ie 1999, the wedding of Kim Ngan – Long Nhat took place.

“Marrying a Japanese man, I stopped studying. Nhat said, after the wedding, he still let me go to school, but I was only 3 months pregnant, so I couldn’t go to school. I was only 18 at that time, about to turn 19. The only thing I regret about marrying a Japanese man is that I couldn’t continue my studies.”Kim Ngan – the wife of singer Long Nhat confided in us.

“Sometimes sad and tired because my husband goes all the time”

Husband and wife often want to be close to each other, but why do you accept to leave Long Nhat alone in Saigon while you and your children live in Hai Phong?

I also lived in Saigon with Mr. Nhat for a few years, sending my children to school there. Later, my son and I moved back to Hai Phong. Here, I trade in branded clothes from abroad. Working out here is more convenient.

In Hai Phong, I also have parents. Parents only gave birth to two daughters. My brother got married in Hong Kong, so I also want to stay close to my parents for love.

From the past until now, Nhat loves to sing. My husband and I live together in Saigon and he goes all year round, so I’m very sad. That’s why I like to be near my parents to avoid feeling empty. I have lived in Hai Phong for more than ten years. Sometimes I go to Saigon with him. In his spare time, he returned to Hai Phong with my mother and me.

However, when husband and wife each have a place like this, she alone takes care of both parents and children. Do you ever feel too tired because you don’t have a husband to rely on?

Yes. Sometimes I’m tired and sad, but I think, what can I do with my husband’s job like that? The days that Nhat was at home with his wife and children, he could count on his fingers because he performed all the time. I’m sad too, the couple just encouraged each other and got used to it.

In return, Nhat is a very wonderful husband and father. He is very filial to his parents. He also takes care of the children. My wife and I live far apart, but we still talk and share often.

Now tell me to follow my husband everywhere, now this province, tomorrow in another province, it will not work. In Hai Phong, I have children, house, work, and parents to take care of. Can’t leave everything to follow him.

My two children have been taken care of by their grandparents since they were still in the womb. They are very braided grandparents. I took a break from school, let me go to Hue to visit my grandfather’s house, and went to Saigon to visit my father for only a few days and then asked to return because I missed my grandparents. Grandparents also miss you.

With a husband, her life is like a single mother. Are you sad?

His job is like that, I accept it. Of course, sometimes I’m sad, and I want my husband to quit because I’m old and stay at home with my wife and children, but Nhat still loves to sing.

I learned that when her husband retires, he will return to his villa in Hue when he no longer sings. Do you know this plan and how do you think?

Whatever Mr. Nhat does, I also support. I never blamed or complained. As a son, he is very filial. He is also very responsible as a husband and father. I also intend to send my children to Hue because it’s okay when I’m healthy, but when I’m sick, I’m also a bit sad and a bit thinking.

Help her husband calm the “storms” in the house

As a person of the public, it is difficult to avoid rumors and discord. Mr. Long Nhat is especially “sticky” to many scandals. Are your parents and children affected by this?

Much influence. The children who go to school are also gossiped by their friends. At times like these, I have to reassure my family a lot. I tell my children, my father is a public figure, the market is inevitable. The children must know that their father works hard, goes early to late at night, and still has to take care of his grandparents, his mother and his children. I talk a lot, because I see him coming home, very responsible.

It seems that singer Long Nhat was too lucky when she calmed down the storm in her family. Because family storms are scarier than outside storms. If the family is not stable, nothing can stand it?

Right. Husband and wife living together must have trust and sincerity for each other. I rarely interact with the media. It is not advisable to live and listen to outside voices and then to blame. My husband, the first person to cuddle with me, I can’t live if I don’t believe.

Moreover, women often endure to keep the family. A house that has never had a fight. It is important to know how to look at each other’s good points and live, not just look at the bad.

But what about the neighbors, do they gossip, have any complaints, ma’am?

Everywhere, there are this and that. Mr. Nhat is happy and sociable. When he meets his neighbors, he greets him warmly. How it was in Saigon, I don’t know, but every time Nhat returns to Hai Phong, he is a very precious neighbor. He is quick and skillful with words. Hearing him talk made all doubts and rumors disappear.

Mr. Nhat tells the story very well, maybe that’s why I “fallen” in the past. When I was not pregnant with Bim, I followed him to perform all the time. My husband and I were angry with each other for no more than 3 minutes and 15 seconds because Nhat told a very charming story. He said, the ant in the hole also crawled out, skillfully, gently. Same with children, he never knew how to scold them.

Thinking about it carefully, what is it about her husband that makes her give birth to 4 children and accept all her losses?

Only love can do it all. Many people say that husbands go away all day but still give birth a lot, but when husband and wife love each other, it’s only geographically far away, but not their hearts.

Are you satisfied with your current life? Up to this point, she and her husband have been married for 23 years. What is the secret to keeping the fire of your marriage?

I am very satisfied with what I have. From husband and children to work, healthy parents make me happy. We have been married since 1999. Let’s go, coming home is always the same as in the beginning.

Nhat has a knack for speaking. Unless he’s asleep, he can talk all day while he’s awake. Speak from morning to night, speak without stumbling, tell stories very attractively. I’m angry with him for anything, just a little bit, the husband and wife make peace, it’s all right. In general, husband and wife understand each other. If the husband is hot, the wife will tolerate it. If the wife is hot, the husband will fast. Peaceful but peaceful, comfortable life.

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