Before meeting her Australian husband, Nguyen Thi Tham (Sadec, Dong Thap, 36 years old) was divorced and was a single mother with a 6-year-old son. And Mr. Shaun Thompson (Australian nationality, 39 years old) also missed a boat with a 10-year-old son. They have known each other and have been married for nearly 10 years now. The two currently have a baby together, 7-year-old Sunny.
The small nest of Ms. Tham and her husband Australia. Photo taken 7 years ago.
Surprised when I found out I was pregnant
Tham met Mr. Shaun online while commenting on the same post. After seeing his introduction and reading his comments, she decided to make friends. The first time they talked, they felt that they were very suitable, so they moved together. At that time, Ms. Tham had been working in Australia for 3 years as a housekeeper in a resort while Mr. Shaun worked as a worker in the Galvanizing Workshop. After a week of chatting online, they decided to meet and after 6 months they decided to get married.
“He is sincere, handsome, poor, loyal, romantic, good-natured, responsible, gentle, sharing, sympathetic, always listening, never raising his voice or quarreling with anyone. He is gentle, close but gallant, very sympathetic, respectful, always defending women. 10 years later he is still the same“, Tham shared about her husband.
Brothers and sisters know each other through social networks.
It is known that when she had known each other for 4 months, when Tham took Shaun back to Vietnam to play for the first time, she discovered she was pregnant. Both brothers and sisters are extremely happy and happy. Especially, she was very surprised because the baby came to her and her husband so quickly. Pregnancy with baby Sunny was quite smooth with her, she gained nearly 20kg from 52kg to 70kg. Shaun is always there to take care of and care for her carefully and thoughtfully.
“Pregnant women are often angry, but he has never made me cry. Until now, he does everything according to his own will, does everything for me, all for me because he just wants me to be happy and happy.”Ms. Tham said.
Tham gained 20kg while pregnant.
It is known that Ms. Tham gave birth to baby Sunny at 40 weeks. Because her first baby was born by cesarean section, she also had to give birth to Sunny by cesarean section. Recalling the day of her birth, Tham said, until now she gave birth twice but still do not know the feeling of labor pain or the water breaking because the children were too expected to give birth but still refused to come out, the doctor had to perform a caesarean section. to get the baby out.
“My first baby waited forever and still didn’t feel any pain in the birth canal even though it’s been more than 2 weeks. The doctor had to surgically remove it. Baby Sunny too, waited for a long time but there was no labor, so the doctor had to operate. When the doctor pulled out the babies were still busy sleeping. I was anesthetized from the back down, so I could still lie down and talk normally, my husband still holding hands and sitting next to me. The doctor performed surgery on the baby, let me hug it first, then gave the scissors to my husband to cut the umbilical cord. Mrs. Tham laughed.
The first time she saw the birth of her son, her husband cried tears of happiness because it was the happiest moment of his life. For him, Tham and her daughter are the best thing that has ever happened to him that makes him move.
Her husband cried when she gave birth to a daughter.
Tham’s baby was born weighing 3.7kg. Having given birth in Australia, she was taken care of very carefully, her husband was only at the hospital until 9pm and at night there were 2-3 nurses on duty to give pain relievers and carefully monitor her. The nurse even looked after the baby, fed the baby all night so that she could regain her strength, which made her extremely touched.
Twice the pain of losing a child, always wishing to have another baby
Speaking of this, Ms. Tham said that Sunny’s arrival was a blessing for her and her husband because after giving birth, they wanted to have more children, but for the past 7 years that wish has not come true. She suffered twice because of the loss of her child, once in 2018 and once in 2019.
Tham tearfully said that in 2018, she was happy when she heard that her baby was coming, but she only kept the baby for 3 months because of the weak pregnancy. A year later, she was pregnant again, that joy was only 4.5 months. This time because of the large pregnancy, she had to go to the hospital for surgery.
“Those two miscarriages, I stayed in the hospital for about 2-3 days, my health affected a lot. The second miscarriage was nearly 5 months old, so I had to be hospitalized under anesthesia for caesarean section.
I cry a lot, I even want to be depressed. Sunny’s daughter also asks for me all the time, so my pain is even bigger. I cried and haunted a lot, had to go to a doctor for psychological counseling for a while”, Tham confided.
Tham lost her child twice, so it was haunting and extremely painful.
Fortunately, during that difficult time, Mrs. Tham always had Mr. Shaun by her side to take care of, advise and encourage her every day so as not to affect her health. He also took her to a psychiatrist, took her out to relax her mind.
Not only that, he always complimented her. Her body has changed a lot, then he never complained, he always complimented his beautiful wife and sexy wife every day because for him his wife is the most, the most important thing for him is that the whole family is always healthy. Besides, he also helps her with a lot of housework, taking care of her and her baby after giving birth without worrying about anything.
My daughter Sunny wants to have you, but she and her husband have not been able to do it.
Tham’s present happiness is in the West.
Currently, he is working at a car rental company and she works part-time as a kitchen assistant for 4 hours a day at an Australian restaurant specializing in Pizza. In the morning, she takes the children to school and then does housework, in the evening she works from 5 to 9 o’clock at a restaurant. Although it’s a bit hard, I’m happy with what I have. Her husband works from 7 am to 3 pm every day, on weekends he spends time with his family, children, and helps her clean the house on weekends. Sometimes her whole family goes out for 2 weekends, enjoying a peaceful life in a very happy small house by the sea. And she and her husband still try every day to fulfill their wish to have more children for their children.
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