The 9-year-old boy recounts the pain when his father is hot-tempered, angry, often beating him

Coming to What I want to say, little Xuan Thinh put in the Secret Box a cute little teddy bear but covered his ears. Xuan Thinh revealed to MC Oc Thanh Van: “This bear looks like me. Whenever my parents argue, I often cover my ears. Parents have been at odds for nearly 2 years now, rarely having fun together. I don’t know why but I’m very sad. I am afraid that you two will stop loving each other and leave me. Sometimes when I see you come home from work tired, I want to come close and kiss you, but you push me away. I dare not tell you these things because I fear that you will hit me. Daddy is so hot-tempered!”.

Xuan Thinh said, his father worked as a driver. When he came home from work, he often went straight to his room, just staring at the phone. The atmosphere in my family is heavy and stressful when my father is at home. Dad often argued with his mother, sometimes arguing for several hours. Dad also broke the cup during the meal. He poured out his temper and anger on Xuan Thinh with blows that scared the boy so much that he did not dare to cry. Although I am not angry or hate my father, sadness and hurt are contained every day. In the house, Xuan Thinh has a brother and sister. The three brothers get along well, often playing catch and kicking together very happily.

Listening to her daughter’s confession, Ms. Hong Linh choked back: “Ba Thinh is a person who rarely shows emotions, sometimes family life has many problems, so the couple quarrel. Simple things, but he also got angry and then argued without reason. The couple was causing it, and Thinh told her parents not to cause it anymore. I don’t want parents like that. I was sad to let my children see that. I think marriage can’t be reconciled, then one day we won’t be able to live together anymore.” According to Xuan Thinh’s mother, her husband never took time to go out with his family, only she took the children together.

Listening to the story, MC Oc Thanh Van confided that children need to grow up in a healthy environment, suffering from this every day makes them obsessed, childhood cannot be happy and carefree. She gave advice to the mother: “If the situation repeats for many years, and the father does not change, then the mother must be the one to change, there is no reason to force the mother and the children to live like that.” The female MC is in the mood to help Xuan Thinh to the best of her ability. She hopes her parents have a solution for this and everything will be better when they see her again next time.

Dr. To Nhi A is upset, I wish that in this story, the person who sat in the room to listen to my son was not my mother, but my father. She commented: “Many couples think that because of the pressure of life, they only quarrel over small things, but if it accumulates every day, it will be the last drop of water. Parents always have reasons to justify their rage in front of their children, but they should sit together to openly share the pressures both of them are facing. Always remember that what we do today will bring results in proportion to our actions. Each person can choose the value of life, but there must be changes from both sides.