Many women ask for sperm to be single mothers

The doctor was also surprised

Referring to the current single motherhood of sisters, Ths.BS. Cao Huu Thinh, Tu Du Hospital shared: “This trend is increasing. In fact, there are days at the clinic, I receive about 3-4 women to ask for advice.”

BS. Thinh, for example, was a university lecturer who was married but had no children. After the divorce, this woman did not go any further but wanted to have a child.

On examination, her ovaries were very poor. This woman decided to apply for sperm at a sperm bank for IVF…

Doctors are performing embryo implantation from sperm at the Seed Bank

Or there is a case where a 26-year-old girl asks for sperm and decides to be a single mother. The patient admitted to being a lesbian. The next visit was accompanied by same-sex friends, both determined to ask for sperm to have children.

At the Center for Reproductive Support and Tissue Technology, Hanoi Medical University, there are also many women who decide to be single mothers and ask for reproductive assistance from the “breeding” bank.

Assoc.Prof.Dr. Nguyen Manh Ha, deputy director of the center, once shared about the case where the girl was of reproductive age, unmarried, but came to the center “insistent” to have children thanks to the help of IVF with sperm. the word “warehouse”.

Seeing that the girl was still young, the doctors disagreed and advised her to go home and think again. However, the next time she returned, with her biological mother accompanying her, the girl continued to present her wish to “be a single mother”.

After hearing the family’s wishes and consent, the doctors agreed to do IVF with her own eggs and sperm samples in the bank.

4 groups of women who want to be single mothers

According to BS. Huu Thinh, there are 4 groups of women who want to be single mothers. First, homosexuals; Second, women have failed in marriage, after divorce they do not want to get married again but earnestly want to have children.

Third, the woman experienced many love affairs, then she did not want to get married and wanted to have children. And fourth, the cases of asexuality, most of them are successful, beautiful, rich women… but they don’t like men, nor do they like women. They like freedom, a happy life, so they only need one child.

According to Mr. Manh Ha, a single woman who needs to ask for sperm from a bank will find a sperm donor. After carrying out the procedures to donate samples to the bank, they will receive an anonymous sample from the bank that the hospital gives them according to the principle of sample exchange.

This exchange is done by the staff of the sperm bank according to the principle of encoding donation samples into anonymous samples. Neither the donor nor the recipient will know to whom the donation or sample is received.

After completing the procedure, doctors will assess general health, assess ovarian reserve, and the patient is injected with ovulation medication.

On the day of egg retrieval, sperm is taken from the bank and then thawed to create embryos. Sperm samples ensure anonymity, screening for infectious diseases. After the embryo is cultured, it is transferred to the woman’s uterus.

“With frozen sperm, doctors only perform in vitro fertilization, do not defrost sperm, and inject directly into the woman’s uterus.

The samples accepted by the sperm bank are completely healthy and have been medically tested,” said Dr. Thinh added.

Dye please – give sperm directly

In fact, many women want to be single mothers, but do not have enough financial resources to perform IVF from sperm at the Seed Bank. Some people who want to choose the “origin of seed” have come to the service of asking for – giving sperm directly.

If there is demand, there will be supply, on social networks, there are many groups “donating – asking for sperm such as: single mother, infertile, IVF – in vitro fertilization, IUI – artificial insemination or “Ask for sperm – find a man” free sperm donation”… Many men left the information “willing to help free of charge with the form of direct donation, no strings attached…”.

However, many women have “entangled” many troubles after this.

Sharing views on direct sperm application, Dr. Huu Thinh said that this direct sperm donation is very dangerous, with many consequences, even “losing money, carrying disabilities”.

According to BS. Thinh, self-purchased or self-made sperm has not been medically tested, so it is not possible to know if it can help you get pregnant.

Even asking for sperm directly puts women at risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, hepatitis B, genital warts or syphilis… from donors.

In this regard, according to Dr. Tran Van Phuc, Saint Paul Hospital Hanoi, “Men, instinct is genetic, so if someone “thanks”, they will easily accept the invitation. But if that instinct dominates, it will be very dangerous for society, meaning that one person can donate sperm to many people. This has happened in the world before, so we need to take measures to stop it.”