Tâm sự

Not satisfied when her sister-in-law often borrows money

The total income of my wife and I is 25 – 27 million VND per month. The couple’s income is not high, but the sister-in-law often asks to borrow money.

I am 28 years old, my husband is the same age, both are salaried. I just had a baby six months ago and returned to work, before that only my husband took care of the family. My family situation is a bit special, my mother-in-law died early, my husband has a married sister a kilometer away from home. When I got married, my father-in-law died before I could get married. In that one year, the husband and wife took care of their father’s filial piety, organized their own wedding, and at the end of the year I gave birth to a baby, to admit we couldn’t make much money. My wife and I decided to open a one-year savings account with the remaining money after taking care of a big job.

>> My husband’s brothers and sisters constantly borrow money that my husband doesn’t pay

When I gave birth, my sister-in-law came to visit and take care of me for a few days because there was no mother-in-law to help, only my grandmother came to take care of me. I thank you for that. After giving birth for two months, my sister-in-law opened a shop selling household goods and was short of capital and asked for a loan. At that time, in addition to the above-mentioned savings book, my wife and I had just saved more than 30 million dong, I was just born, so I paid a lot of money. She asked me and my husband to borrow a loan, but did not say when to pay, if it was profitable or not, we lent her 15 million dong. A week later, she called my husband privately (he recounted) to say what her husband was doing related to the gangsters, if he couldn’t make enough money he would have to go to jail. She said that at the end of the year, if she sold the car, she would return it to me and my wife.

My wife and I lent her another 15 million dong. From the day she opened the shop, she was able to do business and trade, the store is opposite my gate, so I know that. However, the shop she rents does not have a toilet, so she has to use it thanks to the owner’s house (right next to the store). Perhaps she thought it was more comfortable to use the toilet in my house, so she went to school every few times a few times, fetched water, washed her hands… There was a time when her two children could not go to school because of the Covid epidemic. They went downstairs to the store together, they hitchhiked to the toilet, and they went upstairs to open the refrigerator to eat my food. I don’t regret anything, I always remember to bring them gifts when I have a cake. However, children without rules, to be honest, I don’t like them.

>> Wife does not want to lend money to her husband’s brother

Maybe I’m a bit selfish and fastidious, but in my house, when people run in and out all day, the toilet has to be shared (my house only has one toilet), I find it quite inconvenient. Currently, my wife and I work all day, the children send their grandmother, we still have to leave a key to my sister-in-law so that she can go to the bathroom whenever she can. In this regard, I don’t have any damage, so I accept it for the time being.

Right now, I have a bit of difficulty, how much money I have saved and deposited in the bank periodically, so I can’t withdraw it right away. I told her husband to speak to her, and as much as he could save, he would send me some money so I could take care of the work. Her husband said in advance that she had to take out a business loan to determine one or two years before she would be profitable and have money to pay. He did not mention that she borrowed a second time, then she said she would pay off the car sales at the end of the year. I repeated it and he said I remembered wrong. I certainly can’t go wrong with this. Actually, only 30 million dong, if I can’t claim it from her, then borrow someone temporarily, at most withdraw my savings, accept the loss.

>> My brother-in-law constantly borrows money from me

Recently, she asked my husband to borrow money (I heard about it) to import more goods for sale, he said no. I think if my sister-in-law has borrowed for a long time to do business, she should borrow from a bank. My husband is your brother, but has his own family and small children to take care of. My family’s income is not high, she does it somewhat selfishly. Do I think that’s right or am I just a petty, selfish person. Please give me your opinion so I can learn from it.

Direction

Readers call 024 7300 8899 (ext 4529) during office hours for support and questions.

You are reading the article Not satisfied when her sister-in-law often borrows money
at Blogtuan.info – Source: vnexpress.net – Read the original article here

Back to top button