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The son refuses to live with his stepfather

I am 43 years old, my son is in 10th grade. Four years ago I divorced my husband and walked away for a year.

The current husband is 49 years old, unable to bear children, so he and his wife divorced happily. His ex-wife had a new family and gave birth to a child. He came to me and said with all his heart, he wanted to take care of my child. I see that we are compatible, can share, so I agree.

After the divorce, I had nothing but my son. At the foreign trade side, I worked as a single mother hard, so my grandmother and brothers gathered to buy a small fourth-grade house so that mother and daughter could have a stable place to live. My brother and I made a few trays of rice to introduce our family, registered our marriage, and then went back to live at my house. My husband is very secretive, when he loves he does not tell me how much property he has. When he returned, he said that there was a house with a frontage that was renting for more than 20 million VND per month. He told me to move back in, but I found it quite far from my son’s school and my workplace. I suggest you stay at my house, your rent goes directly to my account to spend.

>> I love my stepfather’s stepdaughter

I can say I’m lucky to have him. He was quiet, gentle, lived a simple life, loved my mother and me. He silently helped my brother with money and business; buy tonic, foreign milk for my parents. I only heard about these things, but he didn’t say anything. My son was picked up by him to go to school twice a day. When he came home from work, he had rice and water, washed and ironed clothes for his children. He shared delicate stories about psychology, reproductive health during puberty to his children. He was gentle and attentive, perfect in my eyes.

What bothers me the most is that my son is entering puberty. He is very stubborn, often quarrels and says hurtful words to my wife and me. Her husband said that everyone at this age should find ways to help and share with their children. When I wanted to talk, he ran away, ate alone, avoiding us all day. Recently, I proposed to live on my own and take care of myself, not with my stepfather. I asked her why she said she didn’t like it, if she liked it, she would stay. I shared with my husband, he said that this age of release is spoiled right away, he will find a way to talk to convince his children.

>> Miserable life with an alcoholic stepfather

I have not cooperated with you for two months, and I have been rude to you. You stay taciturn, don’t talk to us. I worry that my child will have erroneous thoughts and actions when alone. What should I do now? Hope you will share.

Gem

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