Thu Ha – the formidable sister-in-law of “Love the sunny day”: The bride should “hold” her mother-in-law to keep the family warm.
Returning to the small screen after a long absence, Thu Ha is receiving great attention from the audience through the role of Thuong – the most hated sister-in-law in “Love the sunny day“. The actress’ honest acting even made her “hate” in real life.
However, Thu Ha said that if she was a woman, she would “not leave it alone” if she met her sister-in-law like her role in the movie. Besides, Thu Ha also has very interesting shares about how she keeps the peace and harmonizes relationships in the family.
After the role of Thuong in “Thuong on a sunny day,” Thu Ha suddenly “caused a fever” on social networks. How do you feel?
I feel very happy, because after quite a long break from the Covid epidemic, busy taking care of my family, I was somewhat distracted from meeting the audience on television, but this time Thu Ha’s comeback has a strong impression, although this not an impression of love but rather a slightly hateful impression (laughs).
When accepting this role, Ha and the whole crew also told each other that they had to accept it, Ha’s role received bricks and stones for sure. I still joke with the film crew: “Don’t worry, I bought 2 sao of land in the Red River rock, enough to store bricks, so just do it”. When Thu Ha read the script and agreed to accept the role, she was ready to receive all feedback from the audience, both positive and negative. I also consider it as a motivation, to know what types of roles I will fix and later perfect it even better than this Thuong role.
As a woman looking at Thuong, how do you feel about the character you take on?
If from the perspective of a normal audience looking at the character Thuong, I would also consider her sister-in-law to be too cunning and cunning. How can you do such immoral things? The damage caused her parents to suffer, she even invited her mother to plot to take over her brother’s house, arrange for her ex-girlfriend to rape her sister-in-law. I don’t think there is anyone in real life who is so barbaric and does all these depraved things. Sometimes when I sit to watch movies, I am also very angry, if I were a normal audience, I would also want to “total insult” this Thuong.
Some viewers think that “Love the sunny day” is pushing the drama too much. Do you think these are real life situations?
Many people also say that the film is going too far with reality, Thu Ha once asked the same, the director said: “Sister, there are people like that in real life, they just don’t share them on social networks. or just go out. There are people who are also suffering like Khanh (Lan Phuong plays – pv). So feel free to do it.”
And I myself read on the internet that there are women who say that there is nothing too much in movies like this, they have lived in such circumstances, they find the film very realistic.
I think, in order for the film to have climax and drama, sometimes people find it a bit too much, but it takes something like that to force Duc (Hong Dang in the role – pv) and Khanh to get out of the quagmire. We have to push to the last step to be able to get rid of it. The scriptwriter, director, and actors also agreed to do that to solve the problem.
If you met a sister-in-law like Thuong in real life, how would you react?
If that’s the case, I certainly won’t let it go. In this era, women are completely independent, so they can’t bear the pressure like Mrs. Hien’s family (played by People’s Artist Lan Huong – pv). Even now, being pregnant before marriage is still good news, not being ridiculed and hated by her mother-in-law.
I will have my own solution, can not endure like Khanh in the movie.
People often say “the enemy on Ngo’s side is not as good as the aunt on her husband’s side”, do you think this statement is still relevant to today’s life?
At home, I’m a younger brother, I have an older brother and an older sister. Thu Ha also takes care of everyone in her family because she was born early, is the youngest, but has more conflicts with society than her siblings.
As for the husband’s family, I am a sister-in-law, with two sisters-in-law. But I have to say that everyone loves and respects each other very much. The two sisters also take great care of their sister-in-law, more than their younger brother. Sometimes the husband and wife were loud, she always told him to hold back, told her to work hard and things. When I was infected with Covid, the sisters also sent fruit, food and drinks to them.
Currently, when Thu Ha sees herself as her brother-in-law or sister-in-law, nothing has happened.
The relationship between brides and in-laws seems to be an eternal theme. Based on your own experience, what do you think is the most important factor in maintaining harmony with your husband’s parents or siblings?
It is impossible to avoid collisions, it is difficult to understand each other because the previous generation and the next generation are already a barrier. So I think the most important thing is to “hold”. The daughter-in-law should hold back because the elderly are also contrary to their character, then they love their son so they don’t want their children to be bullied by their daughter-in-law. Husband and wife sometimes raise their voices to each other, mothers-in-law don’t like it either, like “my son has been raised for so many years and now let her yell loudly like that”, women will sometimes defend their children. That’s it, I’m a bride, I understand that, so I hold back.
Thu Ha is fond of thinking that I talk less. For example, when the husband and wife are raising their voices, but she says that she is quiet, go to another place to avoid staying and inhibiting. If you stay and listen to her, surely no one will be uninhibited because the mother-in-law will often be very protective of her son. I went up to my room to close the door, not saying anything more to keep the peace in the family. Then, if I argued with my mother-in-law, the husband in the middle would be very awkward.
The husband plays a very important role in regulating the relationship between the wife and the paternal family. Is your husband a good person for this role?
In fact, the woman herself should take the initiative in this, so that her husband does not fall into the situation of being placed in the middle. When there is a problem, I take the initiative to go into the room, without arguing, he has nothing to be embarrassed about.
Husband and wife for 16 years can’t avoid conflicts, but if each person holds back a little, everything will be fine. Maybe I just look at the neighbor’s house and see “oh he loves her so much”, every holiday I buy this and that for my wife, but our family actually lives a very simple life. On birthdays and holidays, the couple always buys something to make a hot pot, the children like to blow out the candles, then the father buys a cake for the mother and daughter to blow. See, it’s just that, not fancy, so Thu Ha feels her life is normal, all the same, but I’m content.
My husband is not the romantic type but he has depth. He doesn’t say it, but everything he does for his wife behind him feels and records it. For example, Thu Ha is so busy at work, he almost does all of the care, picking, and sick children. A man who doesn’t talk much but acts like that means he understands and loves his wife very much. So women should not ask too much that he has to be romantic, to love his wife, to take care of children, to do all the housework. I think that is very difficult.
Thank you for the conversation!
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