Wife hugs her pregnant belly and returns to her grandmother’s house to insist on a divorce, the truth behind makes me dumbfounded-Young friend

His wife hugged her pregnant belly and returned to her grandmother’s house to insist on a divorce. I ran out of water and begged her to forgive me and wanted to go home to wait with me for the day the baby was born, but what she said left me dumbfounded.

I never thought that one day I would get a divorce and I did not accept this. (Illustration)

I used to be a workaholic. When I was still not married, my wife also sulk many times because I was busy with work, but sometimes let her “climb trees” on dates or reply late to messages. Sometimes, because I’m so focused on work, I forget about anniversaries. That’s also why she told me everything about me is very good, there is only this point that she doesn’t like about me.

Us men often don’t notice the little things. On my wife’s birthday, she often asks me to be the first to wish her the next day. But I don’t pay much attention to that. How can I watch until 12 at night to wish when I have a lot of work tomorrow at the office? I told my wife like that, she blamed me for being careless.

She asked me to advance at work but blamed me for being careless and not spending time with her family. How is it possible to do that at the same time? Recently, my wife used the reason that I neglected the family, so she asked for a divorce. This was probably a big shock to me.

At first I thought she was just joking with me or at best exaggerating with the desire that I would spend more time with her. But the next day, she left her grandmother’s house. And now I realize that my wife really wants to break up with me.

Until now, I have always loved my wife. I never thought that one day I would get a divorce and I did not accept this. The fact that my wife took the initiative to divorce me made me even more stunned. I went to my wife’s parents’ house, and it hurt more when my in-laws kicked me out because they thought I had hurt their daughter. After many times, I had to leave and accept to wait for a reasonable time to apologize to her and my grandmother’s house. I found that it was my indifference that was slowly killing her affection for me.

Returning home, I accidentally found a pregnancy test in the bathroom. Looking at the two lines on that test strip, I was both happy and blamed myself for not knowing that my wife was pregnant. I love my wife and even more do not want to have children born but have suffered the divorce of my parents, so I am determined not to let the divorce happen. That’s why I went back to my wife’s parents’ house.

After many times standing outside, I finally got into the house. My wife still insists on divorce. Thinking back, I also lacked interest in my wife, causing her heartache. That’s why I ran out of water and begged her to forgive me and wanted to go home to wait with me for the day my baby was born. When I told her, she cried again. I thought she would forgive me to go home, but what she said made me feel very sad.

“I’m sorry. I can’t go home with you. This pregnancy is not your baby” – my wife said. To be honest, at that time, I thought she said that just to make an excuse to break up with me. It took me a while to realize that it wasn’t a joke. In the end, both my wife and my in-laws apologized to me. They expected me to agree to the divorce so that we wouldn’t have to be awkward.

To this day I still can’t think of the wife that I still love in return adultery behind to have children with someone else. Is it because I did not fulfill the responsibility of a husband that let her do so. Should I accept the divorce at the request of my wife or forgive her? Honestly, I still love my wife very much.